Boy advice

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So there is this boy who is a friend of one of my girlfriends that I have a major crush on. I sent him and friend a text to see if they wanted to get together for dinner (he's been out of town). He said yes definitely. Now friend realized she can't go. Should I see if he wants to go, just the two of us? Or is that really weird? We've hung out in group settings about three times. I just feel like it now sounds like I schemed with friend to try and get some one on one time with him.

[riverpestie]

Eh, I would still go, especially since he said "definitely." Just keep is causal and have fun!

[riverpestie]

is = it*

[starryfish]

YES! Go! This is how one of me and my exes got together. We planned a group outing, and everyone else canceled. We still went and dated for a while after that!

[ECB]

Maybe your friend bailed on purpose to get the two of you alone. ;D

I'd send him a message saying that she can't go, but that you'd still like to get out - does he still want to meet you?

Hopefully he'll say yes, and maybe this will be the "next step" you need.

Good luck!

[kellbell191]

GO!

[hazelandblue]

I say go for it. Sometimes you have to take a chance to get what you want.

[kellbell191]

For all you know he had her set YOU up.

[Deleted]

May 10, 2012 14:08:22 GMT -5 kellbell191 said:

For all you know he had her set YOU up.

Ha! I'd like to think that's the case, but we'll see. Okay I'm going to text him! I'll check in with an update soon.

[nextchapter]

Go for it!

[charitylynne79]

Go Go Go GO Go go Go GO

[dakotadangerdog]

Do it!!!

[Deleted]

So I sent him this.

"So friend double booked tonight. But I figure you need to eat dinner, I need to eat dinner, we should eat dinner together yes?"

And his response:
"yes we should."

I realize that this may not be anything, but at the very least I get a friend out of. Oh and he's really cute.

[fuzziebunnie]

Yay! Have fun!

[Deleted]

Gooooo

[farfalla2011]

That is super exciting! Good luck! Can't wait to see how it goes

[Deleted]

And now friend decided she still wants to come along...Way to cock (vagina?) block me.

[BlueBayou]

May 10, 2012 17:22:11 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

And now friend decided she still wants to come along...Way to cock (vagina?) block me.

That's ok, there can be a convenient mix up of times

[hainesherway]

I would still go. Make a comment about your friend "punking out" on you guys.

[starburst604]

May 10, 2012 17:22:11 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

And now friend decided she still wants to come along...Way to cock (vagina?) block me.

Twatblocked!!

[wrathofkuus]

She's just trying to prevent her friend from being attacked by date ninjas (you know, the people who make group plans, and then everyone cancels, and it's just the two of you, and when they check comes they grab it and scurry away so you can't protest at having unwittingly been on a date all evening).