Multiple times a day. I read a great book before we got married that stressed how important that was, regardless of your actual feelings, because it keeps you feeling bonded as a team.
We're not sappy though, at all. It usually just a quick text a few random times a day, and it generally is when one of us isn't in the best of moods. It helps us be positive and less self absorbed.
Multiple times a day. I tell everyone that I love that I love them as often as possible. I had 3 really close friends of mine die in high school, all from seperate car accidents, and I have always thought that I wished I would have told them more often that I loved them. So I try not to go too long without saying it to H, my parents, my best friends, etc.
Although, I was mad at H this morning, and left with out saying I loved him, and then worried all the way to work that one of us would get in an accident and die, all b/c I didn't say it.
Post by fuckyourcouch on Sept 28, 2012 9:15:58 GMT -5
multiple times a day. also to ditto sake, my parents and I say it frequently due to circumstances with loved ones in the past. H's family never says it and it weirds me out.
I don't think H has ever said this to me umprompted, in 14 years. If I say it to him, he repeats, but in a tone of voice that lets me know he thinks it's ridiculous. You know, the eyeroll tone of voice? I tend to not say it very often, because that's not how I want to hear it. So, close to never.
I don't think H has ever said this to me umprompted, in 14 years. If I say it to him, he repeats, but in a tone of voice that lets me know he thinks it's ridiculous. You know, the eyeroll tone of voice? I tend to not say it very often, because that's not how I want to hear it. So, close to never.
I do tell my grandmother that I love her every time I talk to her. She is not an I love you person, no one in my family really is on that side, and she's funny, because at first she had to spit it out like it was acid, now she says it so happily.