-I am almost completely over TV dude after his complete lack of game. Im totally being a bitch and judging him that he texts me sooooooooooooo much and uses the phrase LOL. What can I say Im a judgmental bitch! -I flaked on a date with less than 24 hours notice. I was really over it and Ive been exhausted. The guy texted back he doesnt cancel without 24 hours notice. I thought that was actually pretty funny so I might meet up with him this weekend.....
LOL!!!! ;D
Umm TV guy is officially weird. But I'm amused by this ongoing text conversation and how much he will tolerate. I like 24 hour guy. That was pretty funny.
Haha one time there was a guy who I totally wrote off on match cuz he was like, too hot for me lol, then he messaged me and I gave him a bitchy response blowing him off, and his response was so funny that I ended up talking to him. I lost interest before we ever went on a date lol but still! Funny comments can make people change their minds.
Srsly, like the chick on ML who's husband is a lazy ass and she's a bitch to him cuz she's resentful of him being a lazy ass. Holy shit I can't imagine living like that again!!!
Yep. Sometimes I read some of those posts and am Like Hell to the no. Maybe I am one of those people BK's online dater hates that gives up to easy, but life is too short to be unhappy. You consistently treat me like shit, then get the fuck out. I don't care if you are friend/family/SO, nobody puts baby in a corner!
I just went and read that thread. Christ that guy sounds exactly like my douche ex-FI. Sitting on his ass with his hand in his pants, and pouting when he had to do one thing. THANKFUCKINGGODIDIDN'TMARRYHIMANDHAVEKIDSWITHHIM. THANKYOU!!!!!!!!
I see a lot of posts too where the person just vents about their marriage and I think "Then why are you with him???" My divorced friends and I agree that once you've been through a divorce, you look at relationships a whole new way.
I mean I think I draw the line when TV guy texts me to tell me when he gets in and out of the shower......like I need to know what hes doing all the time. WTF
I mean I think I draw the line when TV guy texts me to tell me when he gets in and out of the shower......like I need to know what hes doing all the time. WTF
This is flame worthy - which is why I am posting it here instead of acting on it.
I miss my ex. He was/is my best friend. We had no passion. Our sex life sucked. But he is a good person who loved me deeply and I care about him so much. I am so sad and lonely these days - and thinking 'Is sex worth breaking up a marriage for?' OK it was NOT just about sex. Dude was not compatible with me in other ways. We had some major mental health issues to work through. I am just in a funk feeling like I'll never find anyone that cares about me remotely as much as he did.
I'm so sorry to hear this. I will say that I do think passion and sex is key to a successful marriage. I do sort of understand what you're talking about in having some care as much for you. My best friend is a gay man. And he treats me so well and is totally my best friend and most important person in my life. I'm not sure any man could ever measure up to him.
I want to have sex. It has been 2 months (a world record). XBF texted me yesterday. He heard I was sick and wanted to see if I needed anything. I thanked him and told him I was okay. But I considered it. Just sex. And I still am. But I know it's the worst idea in the whole entire universe because we will end up back together.
But I need to have sex yo
I know what you mean. My record is 4 months. I'd rather not break it... And vibrators are nowhere near the same. I take bad sex over a vibrator...
WTF? Disagree. Vibes are amazing. They're right up there with brownie sundaes. How could you choose bad sex over a brownie sundae???
This is flame worthy - which is why I am posting it here instead of acting on it.
I miss my ex. He was/is my best friend. We had no passion. Our sex life sucked. But he is a good person who loved me deeply and I care about him so much. I am so sad and lonely these days - and thinking 'Is sex worth breaking up a marriage for?' OK it was NOT just about sex. Dude was not compatible with me in other ways. We had some major mental health issues to work through. I am just in a funk feeling like I'll never find anyone that cares about me remotely as much as he did.
Are you still friends, like gozf and her ex are? If not, could you be?
I'm considering going back into the online dating world once again...
I KNOW that it's not the best thing, but ugh. I'm starting to miss dating again. I haven't been on it in 3 months so hopefully there are some new dudes. ANd I'm much more "no expectations other than a fun time out" than last time. Honestly, I really don't think there is much hope! But the company could be fun. After going out last in this town and I'm not meeting anyone at work, so...
This could be horrible. Or fun. I don't know...I'm going to wait at least a month or maybe the beginning of the year, but I might get on the horse again.
I mean I think I draw the line when TV guy texts me to tell me when he gets in and out of the shower......like I need to know what hes doing all the time. WTF
Ummm...has he even asked you out yet?
Even though he is 27 which isn't that much younger, he kinda acts like my 20 year old neice where that's the only way that generation communciates...24/7 texting!
I am already at a record of 15 MONTHS as of today!!!! It's not helping that taking my A/D is actually INCREASING my drive dramatically. I am going nuts over here.
This is beyong my comprehension.
Mind blown
The poor guy is going to need ice packs when the time comes!
I DON'T WANT TO WORK!!!!!!!!!! I am sleepy. I almost wish I was still cramping from IUD insertion so I could have an excuse to go home. Damn body getting over shit fast. And plus also, my desk is stacked with work that has to be done by Tuesday, so...ugh. Why for jobs must get in the way of GBCNing?
I DON'T WANT TO WORK!!!!!!!!!! I am sleepy. I almost wish I was still cramping from IUD insertion so I could have an excuse to go home. Damn body getting over shit fast. And plus also, my desk is stacked with work that has to be done by Tuesday, so...ugh. Why for jobs must get in the way of GBCNing?
I feel the same. I have homework to do TOO but nooo I don't want to.
Ooh, I kinda have a good one but it's a little long. First piece: the very first time A and I had sex, it was in his lobbyist's office (we get right to the fun times!).
So, we're going to a function last Sunday when we start talking about a friend of mine who works for a prominent political figure in the state. It goes like this:
A: I bet your friend has some great stories about Politician. I know some pretty funny stuff about him, but your friend works with him everyday. Me: Yeah I'm sure he does. I also had a professor in college who was really good friends with him. A: Really? What class? What was his name? Me: A politics class. I don't remember his name. A: Hmm. Would you know it if you heard it? Me: Maybe? Try. A: Was it G.E.? Me: Yes! I'm almost sure of it! How did you know that? Did you take his class? A: No. I know G.E. personally. He's my lobbyist. I fucked you in his office.
We've done it on three desks and one conference table so far. His kink is semi-public sex. He obliges my desire to get the shit beat out of me, I oblige his to potentially get caught lol.
My big conquest will be a fire truck. I will have sex on one at some point.
We've done it on three desks and one conference table so far. His kink is semi-public sex. He obliges my desire to get the shit beat out of me, I oblige his to potentially get caught lol.
My big conquest will be a fire truck. I will have sex on one at some point.
I think it'd be fun to do semi public where it's like very very low chances of getting caught. I think it's RUDE to get caught lol. No one wants to catch you boning!!!
I'm considering going back into the online dating world once again...
I KNOW that it's not the best thing, but ugh. I'm starting to miss dating again. I haven't been on it in 3 months so hopefully there are some new dudes. ANd I'm much more "no expectations other than a fun time out" than last time. Honestly, I really don't think there is much hope! But the company could be fun. After going out last in this town and I'm not meeting anyone at work, so...
This could be horrible. Or fun. I don't know...I'm going to wait at least a month or maybe the beginning of the year, but I might get on the horse again.
I don't think this is so bad. I mean Portland doesn't have the best dating scene. Let's be honest. It sounds like you are going in with realistic expectations.
We've done it on three desks and one conference table so far. His kink is semi-public sex. He obliges my desire to get the shit beat out of me, I oblige his to potentially get caught lol.
My big conquest will be a fire truck. I will have sex on one at some point.
I think it'd be fun to do semi public where it's like very very low chances of getting caught. I think it's RUDE to get caught lol. No one wants to catch you boning!!!
I completely agree. Plus, I don't want to get arrested! He's not an exhibitionist, he just likes the thrill of the maybe.
I'm considering going back into the online dating world once again...
I KNOW that it's not the best thing, but ugh. I'm starting to miss dating again. I haven't been on it in 3 months so hopefully there are some new dudes. ANd I'm much more "no expectations other than a fun time out" than last time. Honestly, I really don't think there is much hope! But the company could be fun. After going out last weekend in this town and I'm not meeting anyone at work, so...
This could be horrible. Or fun. I don't know...I'm going to wait at least a month or maybe the beginning of the year, but I might get on the horse again.
I don't think this is so bad. I mean Portland doesn't have the best dating scene. Let's be honest. It sounds like you are going in with realistic expectations.
I know. But I'm just setting myself up for dissappointment, I'm sure! Which is why I think it's flameworthy.