My friend is avoiding me

[stephbfan]

So I have a friend. She is Colombian but still lives in the US.

In April that I was in town and we got together, she told me she was getting a divorce because her husband was partying way too much, not coming home and she suspected he was having an affair. Weeks later she told me they were working on it.

Last August that we saw each other, she told me that she was going to go through with the divorce. She was also seeing a guy and sleeping with him. Her husband was going nuts and started to get verbally and physically abusive. I told her to stop sleeping with the other guy and that she should wait until at least, she was separated.

She came to Colombia to visit her mom and I called her and she kept ignoring my calls. She then call me back the day before she left and told me she was coming to see me but ended up not showing up.

I saw some pictures on FB of her and her husband at her sister's wedding. I'm assuming they are back together and she just doesn't want to talk to me because she already told me what's going on.

The thing is a mess but I'm staying out of it. I'm just thinking on emailing her and wishing her well and tell her that I'm there for her if she needs me but after that, I'm going to cut contact unless she wants to talk to me.