WWYD? About a guy

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Last May, I went skydiving with a guy friend for my birthday. We had a lot of fun. My skydiving tandem instructor was hot and really nice. A bit shy though. Anyway, I couldn't do anything because I was with my friend and we were too busy talking, sharing our experience, being goofy.... I bought another jump and decided that next time i would go alone and hopefully I can talk more with the guy

Fast forward to 2 days ago. I went for my second jump and was with the same guy. This time, since it was during the week there were only 4 people total: 2 instructors and another student like me who happened to be from the same town as me (1+ hour away) and a hot firefighter lol.
I jumped with the hot skydiver again. But then I was wondering what to do to ask him out??? There wasn't a good time to do it and I just left. Firefighter waved and smiles at me too lol

I am so pissed at myself. What would you have done (or not done)? I was so afraid of him saying no since he seems super shy that I didn't do anything. Plus I plan on coming back to take more classes. So if he says no, I can't come back lol
My guy friend tells me to add him on Facebook but I am wondering if it's not going to look weird. Arrrrrgggggggh lol

Yeah obviously I had a chance with 2 hot guys and just left in my car

[achase123]

Ugh, I probably would've done the same thing. I'm completely chicken. That's a bad feeling though, wondering "what if". Sorry, I have no advice.

[Deleted]

Me too. I don't really like asking guys out. I might have said something to the fire fighter like "hey if you ever need a sky diving buddy my name is PDX18." But even that's unlikely.

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Oct 5, 2012 13:56:03 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Me too. I don't really like asking guys out. I might have said something to the fire fighter like "hey if you ever need a sky diving buddy my name is PDX18." But even that's unlikely.

My plan was to go for the skydiving instructor. I just happened to be with a hot FF too. And I hope the instructor didn't think I was with him.

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Oct 5, 2012 14:00:33 GMT -5 @landobiscuit said:

Oct 5, 2012 13:56:03 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Me too. I don't really like asking guys out. I might have said something to the fire fighter like "hey if you ever need a sky diving buddy my name is PDX18." But even that's unlikely.

My plan was to go for the skydiving instructor. I just happened to be with a hot FF too. And I hope the instructor didn't think I was with him.

Yea I just wouldn't ask someone out when they're working. I don't know I just always think it puts them in an awkward position.

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Oct 5, 2012 14:13:54 GMT -5 @redvelvet29 said:

Oct 5, 2012 14:03:31 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Yea I just wouldn't ask someone out when they're working. I don't know I just always think it puts them in an awkward position.

I agree. Also do you even know if he is single?

Oh I totally agree. Which is also why I didn't do anything because I knew it would be awkward for him. How do you ask someone out when they are at work? lol And yes he is single.

[wrathofkuus]

See, this is the one social skill I developed, and now it's obsolete.

I'd have just been straightforward, and looked him in the eye and with a smile told him that it was nice seeing him again, and that I'd love to see him again in the future. Then I'd hand him my card (yes, I have fake business cards) with my name and phone number on it, and tell him to give me a call if he's interested, and then beat it the hell out of there.

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LOL ok I am going to make business cards. I know a lot of people with them.

I actually want to skydive by myself so I need to take the required classes and was thinking of contacting him through Facebook to ask him a couple questions ( he teaches the classes). That way, he can decided to add me as a friend on FB, or not lol. I know he is super shy so who knows...

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Oct 7, 2012 12:58:12 GMT -5 @landobiscuit said:

LOL ok I am going to make business cards. I know a lot of people with them.

I actually want to skydive by myself so I need to take the required classes and was thinking of contacting him through Facebook to ask him a couple questions ( he teaches the classes). That way, he can decided to add me as a friend on FB, or not lol. I know he is super shy so who knows...

I think this is a good idea! I would have been chicken too

[onesweetworld]

Do I have to get dating business cards or will work business cards do?

[doriswe]

Oct 8, 2012 8:56:11 GMT -5 onesweetworld said:

Do I have to get dating business cards or will work business cards do?

omfg...this is genious! Dating business cards! It can have your vital stats and contact information! I like this....I may consider this for realz!

[aerochyck]

Oct 8, 2012 8:56:11 GMT -5 onesweetworld said:

Do I have to get dating business cards or will work business cards do?

I am really bored and decided to google this....check out what I found

www.zazzle.ca/dating+businesscards (half way down)

storify.com/cbccommunity/call-me-maybe-business-cards

[doriswe]

Oct 8, 2012 20:44:13 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Oct 8, 2012 8:59:46 GMT -5 doriswe said:

omfg...this is genious! Dating business cards! It can have your vital stats and contact information! I like this....I may consider this for realz!

Is there a spot for penis size and scale of kinkiness?

lmfao...that would save a lot of time on the hunt!

[roselis]

Oct 8, 2012 21:03:02 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Oct 8, 2012 20:44:13 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Is there a spot for penis size and scale of kinkiness?

lmfao...that would save a lot of time on the hunt!

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