I usually lurk but recently single. I intro-edon ML once before, anywho. I had joined POF since it was free & had been bantering back and forth for past 3 days over POF MAIL, so I figure I give him my #, told him he could text or call whatever's comfortable. So he texts me hey what's up? I'm like swamped at the moment can we talk later? (I forgot to hit send)-- 2 min later phone buzzes again from him "Um hello?" I sent the text with the apology of whoops thought I sent and a smiley face. He says "ok ttyl". 15 mins later he texts me with "my aunts funeral was yesterday". I was like oh maybe he sent to wrong person, so I'm like "wrong text. But I'm swamped ill text you when I'm done I swear". He's like "well I meant to send it to u & I want to talk why are u on pof if u don't want to talk". I was then creeped out and pretty much said look this isn't gonna work out, I can tell off the bat we are different ppl, but good luck!" His text back "FUCK YOU PSYCHO WHORE IM BLOCKING YOU, GOODBYE"-- *blinks eyes*. I swore I was being punked. I guess that's what u get with free sites.
I've heard of good stuff from POF, so I'm not discouraged. I also thought I at least screened him better. No red flags in his profile or emails back and forth, yet he gets a phone number and goes all "ill stuff you in my trunk to never be heard from again". I dodged a MAJOR bullet. And FYI he's in the NY/NJ area and in "law enforcement". Scary.
I've heard of good stuff from POF, so I'm not discouraged. I also thought I at least screened him better. No red flags in his profile or emails back and forth, yet he gets a phone number and goes all "ill stuff you in my trunk to never be heard from again". I dodged a MAJOR bullet. And FYI he's in the NY/NJ area and in "law enforcement". Scary.
Oh dear! I hope I haven't talked to him on POF!
He's 31-32 from freehold, like 6'7... Stay away from any guy resembling that. You live in NYC or NJ?