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[blackkitty]

So I met this guy that turned out to be a total pathological liar. I really think everything that came out of his mouth was a lie.
He told me about this girl that he dated right before me and how she's crazy and stalked him. Now I kind of want to contact her to compare notes on him ( I know her user name on POF) and who knows he might still be seeing her so I feel like I should warn her about him.
But... I'm 99% sure she'll think I'm nuts and maybe even tell him that I contacted her.
I'm pretty sure I should just walk away and move on
Thoughts? What would you think if you were her and I contacted you with this information?

[doriswe]

I'd leave it alone....there is no benefit to you in contacting her and honestly, it just puts you on his level, kwim??

[Deleted]

Run don't walk away. Why would you want ot get more involved?
If she is crazy as well...then you are opening the door for you to become involved in all sorts of drama.

[Bernadine]

Don't do it.

[blackkitty]

May 20, 2012 14:45:39 GMT -5 mags said:

Run don't walk away. Why would you want ot get more involved?
If she is crazy as well...then you are opening the door for you to become involved in all sorts of drama.

I know y'all are right.
The only reason I considered it was primarily curiosity.

[doriswe]

May 20, 2012 16:14:34 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

May 20, 2012 14:45:39 GMT -5 mags said:

Run don't walk away. Why would you want ot get more involved?
If she is crazy as well...then you are opening the door for you to become involved in all sorts of drama.

I know y'all are right.
The only reason I considered it was primarily curiosity.

Don't forget, curiousity killed the cat

[theycallmeliz]

I know it's tempting, but don't do it. It's not worth it. You'll just feel like crap after because there is nothing you will discover that you didn't know already.

[cemacmil]

May 20, 2012 18:36:06 GMT -5 doriswe said:

May 20, 2012 16:14:34 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

I know y'all are right.
The only reason I considered it was primarily curiosity.

Don't forget, curiousity killed the cat

Been the cat and you only get 9 lives. Leave it be.

[explorer2001]

Leave it alone. Run, don't walk, away. In the psychology books I've been reading, they say It's usually the guy projecting his crazy pv the other person. However it doesn't matter you don't want any part of it

[Deleted]

Always, always steer clear of the crazies.

[BookLover]

May 20, 2012 21:28:29 GMT -5 @landobiscuit said:

Always, always steer clear of the crazies.

Word!

[justkly]

lol. Are you freaking serious? You would look like a total loon if you tried to 'compare notes'. Let it go.

[Deleted]

Walk away and love on. Don't contact her about this. Why do you need to compare notes? You already know that he is a liar, do you really need more evidence?

It's not your place to "warn" anyone about him.

[Deleted]

May 20, 2012 11:20:21 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

So I met this guy that turned out to be a total pathological liar. I really think everything that came out of his mouth was a lie.
He told me about this girl that he dated right before me and how she's crazy and stalked him. Now I kind of want to contact her to compare notes on him ( I know her user name on POF) and who knows he might still be seeing her so I feel like I should warn her about him.
But... I'm 99% sure she'll think I'm nuts and maybe even tell him that I contacted her.
I'm pretty sure I should just walk away and move on
Thoughts? What would you think if you were her and I contacted you with this information?

RUN away and move on. To be honest, pathological liars generally don't change for quite a awhile, barring MAJOR life changing "aha!!" moments or that ilk, and generally have deeper issues that the lying is just a symptom of.