Thanks for letting me vent all my pre-trip concerns last week. We were past the cancellation grace period, and we found big differences among forecasts. Fortunately, Accuweather was, in fact, more accurate and it's been sunny and mild. We are on day 3 and I'm glad we didn't cancel. I wouldn't pay to stay at Carmel Valley Ranch again, like another poster said. If you are super active and plan to play golf and tennis and hit the gym daily, or have your kids along, probably a solid choice. But we've spent most of our waking hours off property, so a little rental condo in town would've done fine.
Highlight of the trip so far: Point Lobos State Park. Wonderful hiking and photography opportunities.
While I'm still grumpy about abstaining from alcohol and massages, I'm glad we came.