I know some of you all saw my post about my "training guy friend" earlier this week. Well he finally made a move and I slept with him. I am now really pissed at myself for sleeping with him so quickly.
Post by starburst604 on May 11, 2012 9:09:24 GMT -5
Here's mine. Most of you know I've been training for a half marathon and the race is tomorrow. When I first signed up, 2 friends signed up with me, one of them being one of my oldest and best friends (J). It's the first half for all of us. We looked together at training schedules and talked about all the training we would do together. Well, we haven't run together once and she has barely trained, while I have trained faithfully nearly every week, 4 times a week for 2 months. I think she's put in a 7 mile run on a treadmill. The other friend has trained moderately, not as much as me but has done pretty well and we've done a lot of running together.
Well, J has a history of just succeeding at everything without really trying at it and tomorrow will probably be no exception. She will probably finish the half just fine. The flame part is, that I will NOT LET HER CROSS THAT FINISH LINE BEFORE ME. If I have to trip her, it will not happen. I know she is my friend but it burns me that she hasn't trained and will still probably do just fine! I'm about to pull a Tonya Harding on this girl!! ARGGGHHH!!!!!
Post by bullygirl979 on May 11, 2012 9:13:13 GMT -5
I am thinking about breaking up with my BF.
But I need some work done around my house. So I might wait until he finishes it. In my defense, it was all shit that he broke so in reality, it is his responsibility to fix it.
But I need some work done around my house. So I might wait until he finishes it. In my defense, it was all shit that he broke so in reality, it is his responsibility to fix it.
Flame away! I really don't care at this moment.
No flames here. Dont yall live together? (I think he moved in with you, right?) Sorry
But I need some work done around my house. So I might wait until he finishes it. In my defense, it was all shit that he broke so in reality, it is his responsibility to fix it.
Flame away! I really don't care at this moment.
No flames here. Dont yall live together? (I think he moved in with you, right?) Sorry
Yup, we live together. I am really fucking upset. But I can say fucking on here so that makes it a little better.
Thanks, Starryfish. And don't beat yourself up over your FFFC. It isn't like you met him last week.
No flames here. Dont yall live together? (I think he moved in with you, right?) Sorry
Yup, we live together. I am really fucking upset. But I can say fucking on here so that makes it a little better.
Thanks, Starryfish. And don't beat yourself up over your FFFC. It isn't like you met him last week.
Yea that is going to suck, breaking up with him and kinda awkward too (having him move out).
Yea I know, but I am not sure what he is thinking...i get the kinda feel like he thinks its a booty call/FWB. I dont want that but I dont know if he knows I like "like" him, ya know?
Post by angieawesome on May 11, 2012 9:45:01 GMT -5
I'm planning to leave work a little early today to avoid a going away lunch for an intern here. Said intern is very cool, but I have only worked here for about three weeks and a douchecanoe I dated works here (a lovely surprise on day one of my employment) and he will be in attendance. Instead I'm going home to clean my apartment because the guy I've been seeing is coming over tonight.
My hormones are a bit out of whack right now, so I am a weepy mess. I hate it. I feel lonely and while I'm filling my schedule today, it still sucks. I guess my confession is that I think I might want to marry D. We've been together for about 9 months and both talked early on that we'd be fine living together for the rest of our lives w/o getting married. But I'm crazy about him... I'm scared he might not ever change his mind about getting married but I'm also scared that getting married would "ruin" how great things are now?
Obviously there's no rush and I'll just let things sit and work themselves out. Also, he jokes about getting married, so I'm not sure how to read it. I think he is just joking and I'm reading into things... I'll probably talk to him about it once we've been dating a year just to see where he stands. He's made the comment "Ask me in 5 years and see if I change my mind" so I asked him recently if the 5 yr. thing still stood and he smiled and said "We'll see" So who knows!! Anyway, done rambling!
Yup, we live together. I am really fucking upset. But I can say fucking on here so that makes it a little better.
Thanks, Starryfish. And don't beat yourself up over your FFFC. It isn't like you met him last week.
Yea that is going to suck, breaking up with him and kinda awkward too (having him move out).
Yea I know, but I am not sure what he is thinking...i get the kinda feel like he thinks its a booty call/FWB. I dont want that but I dont know if he knows I like "like" him, ya know?
Yea that is going to suck, breaking up with him and kinda awkward too (having him move out).
Yea I know, but I am not sure what he is thinking...i get the kinda feel like he thinks its a booty call/FWB. I dont want that but I dont know if he knows I like "like" him, ya know?
Don't you hate this about dating? UGH!
YES! And this is why I need to slow down. Normally I dont sleep with guys too fast, but i have known this one for months and so it felt right.
Post by callunafirefly on May 11, 2012 10:01:05 GMT -5
We got a 59 today at work (meaning we can leave 59min early...not 60, just 59). I am going after work to have a couple drinks before my son's baseball game to make sitting with me ex more tolerable.
Coffee guy hasn't responded at all, which makes me a little sad, but instead of being all "woe is me" I'm choosing to find things that I didn't like about him so I feel better about this whole thing. I'm aware it's not nice, but I'd rather feel like I wasn't interested in him vs. him not being interested in me!
I've been fucking pissed off at XH and want to tell him to stop fucking his girlfriend and actually pay attention to DS during the short time you have with him. He's sent me a list of at least 6 Friday's he can't take DS and has yet to ask for any make-up time. The last time DS was there for his Friday night overnight, DS sat upstairs, by himself watching a movie so XH and girfriend could "rearrange" his bedroom. SPEND TIME WITH DS DOUCHEBAG!!!
YES! And this is why I need to slow down. Normally I dont sleep with guys too fast, but i have known this one for months and so it felt right.
Just enjoy yourself! I've done both the waiting for awhile thing and the jump right in thing (with sex) and its honestly not been an indicator of whether not a relationship will last. Do what feels right and give it some time for things to develop naturally instead of feeling like it needs a label
There is a guy in my group of friends that I hang out with all the time. I've had a crush on him for awhile and anytime we are all together, we gravitate towards each other (in fact, a new girl that has started hanging out with us, thought we were together). We're really flirty and the more we drink the more handsy we get. There are lots of things about him that make me not want a long term relationship with him. But now that I'm leaving in two weeks, I really want to hook up with him - or at least make out with him. Every time we are together, I keep thinking I bet he is a great kisser. My going away party is next Friday and I'm hoping to make that happen. But then the sensible part of me says don't do it, BA...he's a great friend and is already planning a trip to ATX to visit. Why mess up the friendship. But god, those lips...i know he'd be a good kisser.
YES! And this is why I need to slow down. Normally I dont sleep with guys too fast, but i have known this one for months and so it felt right.
Just enjoy yourself! I've done both the waiting for awhile thing and the jump right in thing (with sex) and its honestly not been an indicator of whether not a relationship will last. Do what feels right and give it some time for things to develop naturally instead of feeling like it needs a label
Yea this is how i WAS going to handle it until the text I got from him this morning. It appears he thinks its a booty call, which to be honest I havent really given him any evidence to appear it wasnt. So now I am stuck. I dont want to be a crazy girl and have to have :the talk: right away, but i also dont want him to think i want this as a booty call, I want more. Does that make sense? Should I just wait or talk to him tonight when I see him?
Oh, I have one more....it's Mother's Day this weekend and I'm actually ditching my kids and my mom so I can hang out with my friends on a boat drinking all afternoon. I need a break from being a mom more than words can say, right now!
Just enjoy yourself! I've done both the waiting for awhile thing and the jump right in thing (with sex) and its honestly not been an indicator of whether not a relationship will last. Do what feels right and give it some time for things to develop naturally instead of feeling like it needs a label
Yea this is how i WAS going to handle it until the text I got from him this morning. It appears he thinks its a booty call, which to be honest I havent really given him any evidence to appear it wasnt. So now I am stuck. I dont want to be a crazy girl and have to have :the talk: right away, but i also dont want him to think i want this as a booty call, I want more. Does that make sense? Should I just wait or talk to him tonight when I see him?
Yea this is how i WAS going to handle it until the text I got from him this morning. It appears he thinks its a booty call, which to be honest I havent really given him any evidence to appear it wasnt. So now I am stuck. I dont want to be a crazy girl and have to have :the talk: right away, but i also dont want him to think i want this as a booty call, I want more. Does that make sense? Should I just wait or talk to him tonight when I see him?
What did his text say to make it appear that way?
Basically him "joking" that he was going to come over again and have sex if I made him pizza again (I have made him pizza twice. The first time nothing happened, second time something did).
Just enjoy yourself! I've done both the waiting for awhile thing and the jump right in thing (with sex) and its honestly not been an indicator of whether not a relationship will last. Do what feels right and give it some time for things to develop naturally instead of feeling like it needs a label
Yea this is how i WAS going to handle it until the text I got from him this morning. It appears he thinks its a booty call, which to be honest I havent really given him any evidence to appear it wasnt. So now I am stuck. I dont want to be a crazy girl and have to have :the talk: right away, but i also dont want him to think i want this as a booty call, I want more. Does that make sense? Should I just wait or talk to him tonight when I see him?
Yikes. I would talk to him honestly, as much as that sucks. Unless you are totally comfortable with the idea of doing the whole FWB thing with him, which it sounds like you aren't. Just be prepared for him to say that FWB is all he's looking for. I would probably use humor to approach it if thats any help.
Yea this is how i WAS going to handle it until the text I got from him this morning. It appears he thinks its a booty call, which to be honest I havent really given him any evidence to appear it wasnt. So now I am stuck. I dont want to be a crazy girl and have to have :the talk: right away, but i also dont want him to think i want this as a booty call, I want more. Does that make sense? Should I just wait or talk to him tonight when I see him?
Ok after reading that text, I don't think that necessarily implies that he's thinking FWB. I think he's trying to say he enjoyed having "pizza" with you! ;D
Yikes. I would talk to him honestly, as much as that sucks. Unless you are totally comfortable with the idea of doing the whole FWB thing with him, which it sounds like you aren't. Just be prepared for him to say that FWB is all he's looking for. I would probably use humor to approach it if thats any help.
Yea this is how i WAS going to handle it until the text I got from him this morning. It appears he thinks its a booty call, which to be honest I havent really given him any evidence to appear it wasnt. So now I am stuck. I dont want to be a crazy girl and have to have :the talk: right away, but i also dont want him to think i want this as a booty call, I want more. Does that make sense? Should I just wait or talk to him tonight when I see him?
Yikes. I would talk to him honestly, as much as that sucks. Unless you are totally comfortable with the idea of doing the whole FWB thing with him, which it sounds like you aren't. Just be prepared for him to say that FWB is all he's looking for. I would probably use humor to approach it if thats any help.
Yea I know i have to expect that. I just dont want it to be awkward afterwards, ya know? Obviously if I lose him as a training partner, its OKAY bc I like training by myself too, and can train with some other people. I just dont want to come across as a needy crazy girl when I have this convo tonight. ya know?
Yikes. I would talk to him honestly, as much as that sucks. Unless you are totally comfortable with the idea of doing the whole FWB thing with him, which it sounds like you aren't. Just be prepared for him to say that FWB is all he's looking for. I would probably use humor to approach it if thats any help.
Yea I know i have to expect that. I just dont want it to be awkward afterwards, ya know? Obviously if I lose him as a training partner, its OKAY bc I like training by myself too, and can train with some other people. I just dont want to come across as a needy crazy girl when I have this convo tonight. ya know?
If I were you I would just say to him that you don't want this to be a booty call situation. Just plain and simple. If you aren't blunt he might not get what you're trying to say. I woudn't necessarily say you want more from him just yet but just let him know booty calls aren't what you want.
But I need some work done around my house. So I might wait until he finishes it. In my defense, it was all shit that he broke so in reality, it is his responsibility to fix it.
Flame away! I really don't care at this moment.
Haven't you guys been together for a while? What is making you want to break up with him?