Yea I know i have to expect that. I just dont want it to be awkward afterwards, ya know? Obviously if I lose him as a training partner, its OKAY bc I like training by myself too, and can train with some other people. I just dont want to come across as a needy crazy girl when I have this convo tonight. ya know?
If I were you I would just say to him that you don't want this to be a booty call situation. Just plain and simple. If you aren't blunt he might not get what you're trying to say. I woudn't necessarily say you want more from him just yet but just let him know booty calls aren't what you want.
Good point. Guys dont exactly read between the lines very well. I will try to be direct.
Post by jojoandleo on May 11, 2012 11:20:42 GMT -5
The only thing I am going to miss about the nest are the random crazy posters who would ask asinine questions like "I caught my H having sex with my best friend in our bed, is this cheating?" I realize that being entertained by another's misfortune is pretty bitchy and pathetic.
The only thing I am going to miss about the nest are the random crazy posters who would ask asinine questions like "I caught my H having sex with my best friend in our bed, is this cheating?" I realize that being entertained by another's misfortune is pretty bitchy and pathetic.
I think we can all agree that we do this and like it
But I need some work done around my house. So I might wait until he finishes it. In my defense, it was all shit that he broke so in reality, it is his responsibility to fix it.
Flame away! I really don't care at this moment.
Haven't you guys been together for a while? What is making you want to break up with him?
Yeah, we have been together a year. My gut is telling me that this isn't right. And I need to listen to my gut. It is just really, really hard. I seriously don't want to do this but holy fuck, will I be a trainwreck if I don't.
And I don't want to be thrown to the flames like diamonds and Luibot....
Well i for one won't flame you for this, at all! Is it that you're learning new things about him that are driving you nuts now that you're living together?
The only thing I am going to miss about the nest are the random crazy posters who would ask asinine questions like "I caught my H having sex with my best friend in our bed, is this cheating?" I realize that being entertained by another's misfortune is pretty bitchy and pathetic.
No I totally agree with you so I don't find it bitchy or pathetic. I think that those random posters will find their way here since there seems to be lots of people viewing this board who aren't posting yet.
Well i for one won't flame you for this, at all! Is it that you're learning new things about him that are driving you nuts now that you're living together?
No, I think our morals are not be aligning and I think deserve better than what he is giving right now.
But know that you mention it, he is a slob and it does make me crazy, ha!
Well i for one won't flame you for this, at all! Is it that you're learning new things about him that are driving you nuts now that you're living together?
No, I think our morals are not be aligning and I think deserve better than what he is giving right now.
But know that you mention it, he is a slob and it does make me crazy, ha!
Well I know you're upset about it but I think it's a great thing that you recognize this now and aren't willing to settle. You go girl!!
Well i for one won't flame you for this, at all! Is it that you're learning new things about him that are driving you nuts now that you're living together?
No, I think our morals are not be aligning and I think deserve better than what he is giving right now.
But know that you mention it, he is a slob and it does make me crazy, ha!
Trust your gut. I stayed in my relationship WAY too long...I knew it was wrong but stayed anyways...it got worse for me, not better
No, I think our morals are not be aligning and I think deserve better than what he is giving right now.
But know that you mention it, he is a slob and it does make me crazy, ha!
Trust your gut. I stayed in my relationship WAY too long...I knew it was wrong but stayed anyways...it got worse for me, not better
This! The last guy I dated, I knew it wouldn't work out, but I kept dating him for MONTHS because I knew breaking up would suck, and I liked hanging out with him. The longer I waited, the worse it got.
Well i for one won't flame you for this, at all! Is it that you're learning new things about him that are driving you nuts now that you're living together?
No, I think our morals are not be aligning and I think deserve better than what he is giving right now.
But know that you mention it, he is a slob and it does make me crazy, ha!
No, I think our morals are not be aligning and I think deserve better than what he is giving right now.
But know that you mention it, he is a slob and it does make me crazy, ha!
Well I know you're upset about it but I think it's a great thing that you recognize this now and aren't willing to settle. You go girl!!
Thanks laurens (and Starryfish and DDD). I am really upset by this and it really does help getting the support and hearing encouraging words. This just fucking blows giant shitballs.
No, I think our morals are not be aligning and I think deserve better than what he is giving right now.
But know that you mention it, he is a slob and it does make me crazy, ha!
Have you considered hitting him with your car??
Dude...if I really do this then I will be in jail. And then how am I supposed to live in your spare room??? Probation won't let me leave the county....
I am thinking of backing out of my cousins wedding, 29 days beforehand. I made a new post about it seeking opinions. Anyway, even if I am ultimately justified, it's still flameful because I knew how she was when I accepted and now I'm pissed off about something I could have anticipated.
Dude...if I really do this then I will be in jail. And then how am I supposed to live in your spare room??? Probation won't let me leave the county....
I'll hide you....I swear I won't tell anyone you're here!!
Post by blackkitty on May 11, 2012 14:05:57 GMT -5
I have a new "boyfriend" and I think I'm embarassed to be seen in public with him. And I cannot ever in a million years imagine introducing him to my family or friends. They would all be like WTF? Really?
I have a new "boyfriend" and I think I'm embarassed to be seen in public with him. And I cannot ever in a million years imagine introducing him to my family or friends. They would all be like WTF? Really?
No offense meant, but then why would you date him if he has no long term potential?
I have a new "boyfriend" and I think I'm embarassed to be seen in public with him. And I cannot ever in a million years imagine introducing him to my family or friends. They would all be like WTF? Really?
I have a new "boyfriend" and I think I'm embarassed to be seen in public with him. And I cannot ever in a million years imagine introducing him to my family or friends. They would all be like WTF? Really?
No offense meant, but then why would you date him if he has no long term potential?
I have a new "boyfriend" and I think I'm embarassed to be seen in public with him. And I cannot ever in a million years imagine introducing him to my family or friends. They would all be like WTF? Really?
Why is boyfriend in quotes? Is he a FWB or just a booty call? I'm confused why you're with him if you're embarrassed to be seen with him/
I have a new "boyfriend" and I think I'm embarassed to be seen in public with him. And I cannot ever in a million years imagine introducing him to my family or friends. They would all be like WTF? Really?
Why is boyfriend in quotes? Is he a FWB or just a booty call? I'm confused why you're with him if you're embarrassed to be seen with him/
It's in quotes because I can't really call him a boyfriend at this point since we have only gotten together twice. I'm with him because I like him...
Then make him a booty call! That's all a Mr. Right Now is good for.
I like him though...If you think about it, most guys we date end up being Mr Right now anyway. Such a small small percentage make it long term. With mine at least.