Good. We had an amazing weekend together (out of town) for the Tough Mudder that we did together. Seriously amazing weekend. But yesterday he was acting a little weird, maybe I am overthinking it....
Let me ask you this...would you be upset with this: -He told me last night that he is leaving this Friday to go to out of town for business and to see family (which is why he is getting there the weekend before). He will be back the next Friday 10/19. BUT I am leaving Thursday 10/18 through Monday. So that would be two weekends in a row we are not seeing each other now. I am kinda "miffed" that he couldnt stay the weekend AFTER his business week, which would have been the same weekend I am out of town. Does this make sense? Am I being silly? I know he has to travel, but the weekend thing is just to see family living in the same area...so why couldnt he have gone the weekend after (same weekend I am out of town). Sorry, just need to know if I am being crazy.
Maybe his family had something going on next weekend and this weekend was better for them? I'd be disappointed to miss out on two weekends.
We also had an amazing weekend. I like him more and more and more. I can't believe how comfortable I feel around him.
Ooo thats a good point. But IF there is nothing specifc that weekend, would you be a little hurt/miffed? Or I am just being an emotional OVERanalyzing wreck? Ugh....I just have never felt this strong about a guy before that it is MESSING with my head!
Starry, you're being dramatic! Chill out...it's 2 weeks....you won't die, I promise!!
Thanks...i dont know WHAT is wrong with me...ugh....sometimes I think being single is easier bc I dont have to "think" all the time and over analyze
You managed to survive longer periods of time without him before this....so just breathe!! I'm sure you guys are going to be in contact, so it's not like he's going to magically disappear!
Thanks...i dont know WHAT is wrong with me...ugh....sometimes I think being single is easier bc I dont have to "think" all the time and over analyze
You managed to survive longer periods of time without him before this....so just breathe!! I'm sure you guys are going to be in contact, so it's not like he's going to magically disappear!
Yea I know. I know i am OK being single. I just need to put on my big girl panties.
I totally get it. I'm dating someone who I cannot see that often because of work, his kids, my travel schedule and it sucks especially in a new relationship where you are trying to get to know someone.
I totally get it. I'm dating someone who I cannot see that often because of work, his kids, my travel schedule and it sucks especially in a new relationship where you are trying to get to know someone.
Thanks. We do live 1 hour away and I am in school part time and work full time. So weekends are the time we usually spend together
Skype is awesome but I use it for work so I will have to be very very very careful about being sure I know who I'm Skyping. It is so easy to say the wrong thing to the wrong person when you have multiple windows open at one time!
Dude you need to CHILL THE FUCK OUUUUUUT!!! Take a million deep breaths and don't stress! It's all okay.
I am doing better....i realized why I am SUPER duper emotional today...i freaking had a couple of CHEATS for paleo this weekend which included sugar and grains....i think I am in detox mode again....BLAH
and I have a headache....AND i have RIPPED hands from 70+ pullups this morning....they are oozing and gross..... :-(
Post by dakotadangerdog on Oct 9, 2012 11:22:11 GMT -5
Hahahha omg ew! I have not ripped yet though the most pull ups I've done at a time was like 30. Do you take good care of your callouses? Do you moisturize a lot and keep them shaved/exfoliated??
Hahahha omg ew! I have not ripped yet though the most pull ups I've done at a time was like 30. Do you take good care of your callouses? Do you moisturize a lot and keep them shaved/exfoliated??
Yea I do take good care of them. I havent ripped this bad since June, so i have been good. It was probably bc i just had the Tough Mudder on Saturday, so my hands were extra abused.
OMG....this detox sucks..blah....AND i have eaten almost ALLL my snacks so far....
Starry, you're being dramatic! Chill out...it's 2 weeks....you won't die, I promise!!
Thanks...i dont know WHAT is wrong with me...ugh....sometimes I think being single is easier bc I dont have to "think" all the time and over analyze
I feel this way too haha. But yes, you are definitely over analyzing. If someone I just started dating expected me to change my travel plans so we wouldn't go two weeks apart, I'd be majorly annoyed.
In fact, when my bf and I started dating, I had several trips already planned and it was a good month before we saw each other again. If he at all hinted he was miffed or unsupportive, it would have raised a red flag for me. Personally, it's too early to be expecting that kind of thought and behavior. Plus, two weeks is nothing. I know it's hard but just focus on you and your hobbies and don't worry so much about when you will see him again. Sounds like it is going super well so that is all you can ask for.
Thanks...i dont know WHAT is wrong with me...ugh....sometimes I think being single is easier bc I dont have to "think" all the time and over analyze
I feel this way too haha. But yes, you are definitely over analyzing. If someone I just started dating expected me to change my travel plans so we wouldn't go two weeks apart, I'd be majorly annoyed.
In fact, when my bf and I started dating, I had several trips already planned and it was a good month before we saw each other again. If he at all hinted he was miffed or unsupportive, it would have raised a red flag for me. Personally, it's too early to be expecting that kind of thought and behavior. Plus, two weeks is nothing. I know it's hard but just focus on you and your hobbies and don't worry so much about when you will see him again. Sounds like it is going super well so that is all you can ask for.
Yea yea I get it...BUT he just made these travel plans yesterday
BUt I am happy to report I am feeling MUCH better this afternoon about it....i think my body was all whacked out from the sugar and carbs I had this weekend....i am back to 100% paleo!