Today is a divorce milestone for me...

[usedtobebear]

My refinance/closing on my house is finally being done today, I should be celebrating but it's a little bittersweet for me. We lived there together for 10 years and he did a lot of updates on the house and in our garden.

I am buying him out of his portion of the equity, he finally had the deed notarized this weekend which was a challenge in itself. So, as of today I will be a homeowner all by myself. The best part is I'm taking out $30K in equity for our settlement agreement and my mortgage payment is only going up by $100, (thank you low interest rates!) Although I'm sad, I think having this hurdle out of the way is a neccessary milestone for me.

Oh, and I just paid off the remaining amoutn of my outstanding infertility bill from January, FML!!

[explorer2001]

:drink: ({) :beer: (}) I wish I had more to offer.

[Deleted]

Good for you. You should feel very proud of yourself! You own your own home now. Take your time and maybe paint a different color, get some things to brighten up YOUR space. ({) (}) don't feel sad. This is just another step.