Ughhhh.. men... I'm just speechless...

[audg]

So I had this FWB (whom I actually only benefited from his "friendship" twice), but the last time was a month ago and after we had sex, we were talking about love and relationships..blah blah blah.. and he said he had an on/off again girlfriend and didn't realize how much he loved her until she finally broke it off for good. So seriously.. this is all we talked about alllll niiiight, but I was giving him my advise as to how to win her back (I didn't know ANY of this before having sex with him btw) According to him, she broke up with him because he was incredibly inconsiderate when she was really ill and she had just had enough. And after hearing the story, I told him I agreed with her and that he was a complete asshole. So... the next day after we met up, he was going to see her to see if it would work out and I never heard back from him so I assumed it did. So fast forward to tonight...I get a text from him "hi" .. I said "hi, how've you been, I assumed you got back with your gf, so I was leaving u alone".. he went on to say yes he is and he's so happy. I said "great, happy for you... you shouldn't be texting me then" He said he's "just a horndog and misses our amazing sex" and asked if I would come over one night? REALLY?!?! I couldn't be more adament about the no-cheating thing, even told him about my ex... yet I swear everytime I turn around, some assclown reminds me that its sooo hard to trust anyone...that's it.. vent over

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People stink..sorry. And I agree, it is hard to trust someone with all the jerks out there

[jojoandleo]

Okay, I am going to throw this out because generalizations annoy me to no end-This is not "Ugh men" thing-this guy just sucks as a person. This is not a "I have a penis" thing, but a "I'm a shitty person thing". Women do it too.

Anyway, I am sorry he sucks, but at least YOU are not his girlfriend and at least for his girlfriend's sake, you aren't willing to help him cheat! She broke up with him multiple times, she knows he sucks. Now you can make time in your life for someone worthy of your time!

[audg]

Oct 9, 2012 20:47:23 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Okay, I am going to throw this out because generalizations annoy me to no end-This is not "Ugh men" thing-this guy just sucks as a person. This is not a "I have a penis" thing, but a "I'm a shitty person thing". Women do it too.

Anyway, I am sorry he sucks, but at least YOU are not his girlfriend and at least for his girlfriend's sake, you aren't willing to help him cheat! She broke up with him multiple times, she knows he sucks. Now you can make time in your life for someone worthy of your time!

Yes, you're right..not ALL men .. I was simply saying lately I'm reminded why I'm (very happily) single. It was just a vent.. I'm not saying ALL MEN SUCK ASS and no good ones exist. I haven't given up hope... was just getting it off my chest.

[jojoandleo]

Oct 9, 2012 20:57:36 GMT -5 audg said:

Oct 9, 2012 20:47:23 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Okay, I am going to throw this out because generalizations annoy me to no end-This is not "Ugh men" thing-this guy just sucks as a person. This is not a "I have a penis" thing, but a "I'm a shitty person thing". Women do it too.

Anyway, I am sorry he sucks, but at least YOU are not his girlfriend and at least for his girlfriend's sake, you aren't willing to help him cheat! She broke up with him multiple times, she knows he sucks. Now you can make time in your life for someone worthy of your time!

Yes, you're right..not ALL men .. I was simply saying lately I'm reminded why I'm (very happily) single. It was just a vent.. I'm not saying ALL MEN SUCK ASS and no good ones exist. I haven't given up hope... was just getting it off my chest.

Understandable, not you, I'm just an uptight bitch with the "Oh men" sentiments, just like I am with the "Women, they are all crazy" sayings.

[BlueBayou]

Oct 9, 2012 20:47:23 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Okay, I am going to throw this out because generalizations annoy me to no end-This is not "Ugh men" thing-this guy just sucks as a person. This is not a "I have a penis" thing, but a "I'm a shitty person thing". Women do it too.

Anyway, I am sorry he sucks, but at least YOU are not his girlfriend and at least for his girlfriend's sake, you aren't willing to help him cheat! She broke up with him multiple times, she knows he sucks. Now you can make time in your life for someone worthy of your time!

:Y: :Y: :Y:

[BlueBayou]

Im with you Jojo! Doesnt make him any less shitty tho Audg! Thank goodness he was an FWB where he obviously belongs
He doesnt deserve a gf!

[lookingup]

What a douche.

[achase123]

What a dick!

[wrathofkuus]

To be fair, it isn't as if he seemed like a great guy before this, with how he treated his on and off ex when she was sick and all.