Would it be too soon?

[kaneen]

I've been dating someone new for about 3 months. Neither of us are dating other people. I see no red flags.

He has 2 kids ages 3 and 6. I do not have children. He mentioned meeting them last night although we have no plans for it yet. I think he's just considering it but I feel like he'll suggest it happening soon.

Do you think this is too quick?

[formerlyak]

Fi met my ds (who was 4 at the time) about 4 months in at a lunch with my family for my brother's birthday. It seemed to work well that it was casual and in a group setting at that point instead of some big "meet my kids" outting. The first time we did something just the three of us it was a soccer game about 6 months in.

I guess to me it depends on where you both see this going and where/how you will meet them.

[prettyinpearls]

How do YOU feel about it? If you feel it's too soon, speak up. I'm sure he'll respect that.

[kaneen]

I don't know if it's too soon or not. I guess that's why I was asking for other's opinions.

I do think I see this relationship going somewhere if that helps.

[chrissie3416]

Follow your gut...if you're not ready then don't.

[achase123]

What about a "group thing" where there would be other people around and the intro could be casual?

[kaneen]

I definitely agree that I need to take his lead on this.

Also, I think we would go with a group casual thing so I would just be another friend in a group of friends. At least at first.