Ugh...he just ended it...

starryfish
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Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 17:38:37 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App

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Post by starryfish on Oct 10, 2012 17:38:37 GMT -5

I know it's only been a couple of weeks but I fell for him hard, which is unusual of me. We just did the Tough Mudder together last weekend....

He said he wasn't feeling the excitement/passion that he should be feeling, or was feeling the first week or so.

This really sucks...I know I am OK being single, but it really made me envision what my life would be like sharing it with someone again...

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angieawesome New Member Posts: 325 Likes: 45	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 17:41:33 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by angieawesome on Oct 10, 2012 17:41:33 GMT -5 . I'm sorry
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starburst604 Elder Posts: 15,794 Likes: 17,573	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 17:43:27 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by starburst604 on Oct 10, 2012 17:43:27 GMT -5 I'm sorry Starry It's never easy when you're into someone. At least he was honest and not a jerk about it.
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achase123 Senior Member Posts: 6,491 Likes: 1,687	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 17:48:35 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by achase123 on Oct 10, 2012 17:48:35 GMT -5 Awwww, I am so sorry
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gozf Elder Posts: 15,006 Likes: 14,768	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 17:50:16 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by gozf on Oct 10, 2012 17:50:16 GMT -5 I'm really sorry.
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naeljun Full Member Posts: 3,360 Likes: 704	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 17:53:05 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by naeljun on Oct 10, 2012 17:53:05 GMT -5 ugh. that sucks. I'm sorry.
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imalwaysme79 Junior Member Posts: 968 Likes: 198	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 17:53:33 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by imalwaysme79 on Oct 10, 2012 17:53:33 GMT -5 I'm sorry
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Deleted Posts: 0	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 18:06:02 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2012 18:06:02 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. That really sucks. At least he was honest.
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emma245 Full Member Posts: 1,225 Likes: 67	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 18:07:04 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by emma245 on Oct 10, 2012 18:07:04 GMT -5 Im sorry too but like PDX said, you deserve someone who is wild about you and if he isn't, then at least he was honest and let you go so you can find someone who will be
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doriswe Elder Posts: 16,742 Likes: 7,987	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 18:20:21 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by doriswe on Oct 10, 2012 18:20:21 GMT -5 ((hugs)) I'm sorry!!
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bullygirl979 Elder Posts: 16,113 Likes: 9,495	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 18:22:01 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bullygirl979 on Oct 10, 2012 18:22:01 GMT -5 Hugs!! I am so sorry, Starry!
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BlueBayou Full Member Posts: 1,377 Likes: 111	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 18:27:36 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by BlueBayou on Oct 10, 2012 18:27:36 GMT -5 Im so sorry Starry!! Super big hugs to you!!!
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hobs209 Junior Member Posts: 581	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 18:40:04 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by hobs209 on Oct 10, 2012 18:40:04 GMT -5 I'm so sorry
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leahmel Full Member Posts: 2,458 Likes: 1,332	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 18:45:41 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by leahmel on Oct 10, 2012 18:45:41 GMT -5 I'm sorry . =(
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Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 18:49:45 GMT -5

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Oct 10, 2012 18:07:04 GMT -5 emma245 said:

Im sorry too but like PDX said, you deserve someone who is wild about you and if he isn't, then at least he was honest and let you go so you can find someone who will be

Agreed. You are adorable and deserve someone who is passionate about you. This wasn't him. It sucks, but now you can find him rather than wasting your time.

Hugs and :drink:

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baa1981 Junior Member Posts: 702 Likes: 77	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 20:05:08 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by baa1981 on Oct 10, 2012 20:05:08 GMT -5 I'm sorry
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Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 20:23:43 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App

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Post by starryfish on Oct 10, 2012 20:23:43 GMT -5

Thanks all. I am not sure if he is ready for a relationship. Everything feels great when we are together but it's when we are apart that he has issues/thinks about us...he is only three months out of a two year relationship (he didn't end it)

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turtle1120 Full Member Posts: 3,428 Likes: 998	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 20:28:48 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by turtle1120 on Oct 10, 2012 20:28:48 GMT -5 I'm sorry. It sounds like he really isn't ready for a relationship. Big hugs to you!
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marigoldgirl Full Member Posts: 1,080 Likes: 141	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 10, 2012 21:00:41 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by marigoldgirl on Oct 10, 2012 21:00:41 GMT -5 Well shit that sucks. I'm sorry.
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Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 11, 2012 1:03:48 GMT -5

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Post by redredwine on Oct 11, 2012 1:03:48 GMT -5

I literally said "oh sad!" Out loud i the car when read this. (I was way in traffic. Judge.)

You seem like you havre your head screwed on straight. I was so happy to read you met someone! WTF??!!!! I mean, good he was honest ?! but still. Your handling it better than I would!

Hugs.

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udscoobychick Senior Member Posts: 5,191 Likes: 2,228	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 11, 2012 7:15:04 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by udscoobychick on Oct 11, 2012 7:15:04 GMT -5 hugs
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Bernadine Elder Posts: 14,183 Likes: 19,444	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 11, 2012 7:17:28 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Bernadine on Oct 11, 2012 7:17:28 GMT -5 Oh, I'm sorry But I'm glad he was honest and didn't lead you on further. And it's great that you're handling it well.
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chrissie3416 Junior Member Posts: 624	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 11, 2012 8:44:25 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by chrissie3416 on Oct 11, 2012 8:44:25 GMT -5 Sorry his loss!
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stephbfan Full Member Posts: 1,365 Likes: 1	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 11, 2012 8:47:09 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by stephbfan on Oct 11, 2012 8:47:09 GMT -5 I'm sorry!!
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prettyinpearls Full Member Posts: 4,198 Likes: 2,007	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 11, 2012 8:56:17 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by prettyinpearls on Oct 11, 2012 8:56:17 GMT -5 I'm sorry Starry I know you were really digging this guy too. ((hugs))
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Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 11, 2012 9:59:25 GMT -5

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Post by usedtobebear on Oct 11, 2012 9:59:25 GMT -5

I am sorry to hear this, I thought it was so rad you did the Tough Mudder together, it sounds like he's not quite ready for a relationship, I guess be glad he at least told you instead of disappearing, which appears to be common these days. Hang in there, being sad is never fun!!

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heavenly Junior Member Posts: 679	Ugh...he just ended it... Oct 11, 2012 10:05:11 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by heavenly on Oct 11, 2012 10:05:11 GMT -5 ((Hugs)) I am sorry Starry. I am glad he gave you the respect that you deserved though.
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