How Do You Cope With This?

[Bernadine]

Aw, I'm sorry jade. I feel the same way sometimes. I don't have any great advice for you. You're allowed to be sad over that, just make sure that you're trying to move on and make new friends as well.

Sorry hon.

[formerlyknownasefl]

I think it just takes time and you have to make new friendships and memories. I'm very fresh out of my marriage (only separated for 6 months) and I struggle with this every day.

It's hard to accept that my idea of our family is gone now and it's just ds and I. It's really tough and I just take it day by day. Hugs... Sorry u are having a rough day.

[usedtobebear]

I'm sorry you are dealing with this, I feel like this often and miss a lot about the life I had with my stbx, especially his family. I hope you and your BF can find new friends to hang out with so you can have new couple activities to look forward to.

[aerochyck]

I know exactly how you feel. The worst thing is I don't even have a new group of friends yet let alone a BF.

Someone described it to me like a death since you grieve what you have lost As time passes you may not mourn the loss every day but you will still feel it from time to time.