NMMMR: IF boards on TB?

[electricmayhem]

I'd ask on Proboards Baby, but they look pretty dead, as are the IF boards that I used to frequent (IFV, SAIF) on TB. Does anyone know where everybody went?

[UnderProtest]

Here. People just post on MM Moms. There are a bunch of us who have gone through it or are going through it. And the ones who haven't are still supportive.

[Deleted]

SAIF blew up big time a few months ago over the Davezwife issue. Way too much backstory unless you're familiar. IFV I think was always pretty slow and they moved to a private facebook group recently.

[karinothing]

Oct 11, 2012 14:46:36 GMT -5 @notquiteblushing said:

SAIF blew up big time a few months ago over the Davezwife issue. Way too much backstory unless you're familiar. IFV I think was always pretty slow and they moved to a private facebook group recently.

NOW i want to know the story. lol.

[egishere]

Yep there are a couple private FB groups for SAIF that I am a member of but not sure about IFV...that board started right around the time I got pg so I didn't frequent it too much. I still don't know the whole story on Davezwife other than she was possibly a faker? I couldn't keep up with SAIF too much either after I had my kids.

[Deleted]

Oh man, Goldie may be better at this than me but she was a long time regular on 3T/SAIF etc. Then she got pregnant with triplets, and lost one and they didn't think one of the twins were going to make it and a whole host of other medical issues. The day after she gave birth someone called her out and said she faked all the complications and had a singleton pregnancy the whole time. It divided everyone and became a huge mess.

Let me google. Here it is:

community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/57517361.aspx

[egishere]

We need Goldie in here to tell us the scoop on Davezwife! From what I remember she was pg with triplets and m/c?? and then got pg with twins but one of them had some type of defect and the Dr's said the baby would die shortly after birth which did happen. I think some ladies thought she was never pg with twins and full of it. I have no idea!

[Deleted]

Oct 11, 2012 14:57:04 GMT -5 egishere said:

We need Goldie in here to tell us the scoop on Davezwife! From what I remember she was pg with triplets and m/c?? and then got pg with twins but one of them had some type of defect and the Dr's said the baby would die shortly after birth which did happen. I think some ladies thought she was never pg with twins and full of it. I have no idea!

I never really interacted with her and was just lurking during her last pregnancy but it did seem like she was a big vaguebooker about the sick twin. Like saying there was no chance he was going to make it (but not why) and then saying he was going to have special needs (what kind). I think there's more explanation in the thread I linked.

[egishere]

Yeah she just always had some type of drama going on so I think that is why people started to not believe her...like that many bad things could not happen to one person type of deal.

[bronxgirl]

I used to post on TTC over 35 and secondary IF, but between the boards being slow and just feeling like I don't really know the posters that well I lost interest. Sometimes I post here about IF.

[abramos]

The IFV board moved to a FB page b/c of the random trolls and it was slow. I try to post here but I am in a holding pattern until we have a enough $$ for IVF.

[knitty]

That davezwife has a blog

Daveandtracie.com

It's boring, but this is golden

community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/14096205.aspx

[statlerwaldorf]

I'm here and on the GP on here. I posted mostly on Secondary IF.

[hopecounts]

the split was people who either believed her or thought calling out someone who may have lost a child recently was in bad taste and those who didn't want to keep their opinions to themselves.

[electricmayhem]

Thanks everyone! I was on the IF boards before DW even got pg with her DD1, so I am aware of all of her drama (and then some). I was just wondering where all of the other familiars went who used to make up SAIF (and occasionally post on IFV)--the links from NQB and Knitty had a lot of the names I remember seeing over there, but no longer.

We're cycling again soon so thank you for the welcome here.