My un-anniversary

[sparkles17]

So, today I would have been married for 7 years. Honestly, I had forgotten until I got a message from exH this morning to "remind" me and basically blast me. You know, you ruined my life, that was the worst day of my life, you ruined me financially, blah blah blah. Thank goodness that I am in a much better place now. 3 years since our seperation and nearly 2 years since our divorce was final and he just can't let it go.

[Deleted]

I feel very bad for you, and if there isn't children involved, I'd say block him. He seems super crazy.

[Deleted]

Today was supposed to be my 7th anniversary too. I am gonna do some volunteer gardening with work.

Can't you block your XH? It's strange that he can't let it go.

[nextchapter]

Ugh, I'm sorry. Three years is a long time to still be sending this kind of stuff to an ex.

Honestly, I wonder if I should expect the same from my XH. This Friday would have been our 12th anniversary and last year (the first one after our split), he wanted to take me out to celebrate.

[sparkles17]

Yeah, sucks, but there are kids involved, so I'm going to be stuck dealing with his antics for a long time. I try so hard to keep our communication limited to the kids, but then he sends me gems like that. Oh, and a week ago on MD he sent me a message that he was sorry that things didn't work out differently between us :0

[BlueBayou]

Aww I'm sorry Sparkles. Asses are hard to deal with.

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May 21, 2012 9:47:22 GMT -5 @sparkles17 said:

Yeah, sucks, but there are kids involved, so I'm going to be stuck dealing with his antics for a long time. I try so hard to keep our communication limited to the kids, but then he sends me gems like that. Oh, and a week ago on MD he sent me a message that he was sorry that things didn't work out differently between us :0

I'm sorry that you have to deal with that. That can't be fun at all.

[explorer2001]

That sucks. I'm sorry.

[marigoldgirl]

I'm sorry this is not fun to deal with.

[hainesherway]

I'm sorry. I agree with PP, if there are no kids involved, I would block his number.

[lovelybb]

Sorry you have to deal with this... D's exW is similar... she's calmed down a bit at the moment, but just broke up with her bf for the hundredth time so we'll see if she stays that way. All you can do is keep it on the topic of the kids. Don't engage with the crazy. D is great at this but it has taken awhile to get to that place of apathy.

[ebeth]

do not engage. ignore him.

you might have to discuss your kids with him but you do not have to discuss how sad he is, the ways you have wronged him, etc. if he starts talking about it during a conversation about the kids, end the conversation or redirect.

or just switch to another form of communication. if he's sending you emails with things he would say in person, tell him you will not be opening any further email from him and that if he needs to discuss something with you he can call you on the phone.

[BlackCanary]

I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I agree, ignore him.