Am I a bitch

[HoneySpider]

Well if that makes you a bitch, then I'm one too. I hate hearing stories of people being disappointed in the gender of their child. Ridiculous.

[jessuhmarie]

I read that post (was it something like "disappointing u/s" or the like?).. I wanted to punch her. I totally can't relate to that at all.. I'm so tired of people complaining about their baby's sex. I can understand a bit of initial disappointment, but not enough disappointment to vent about it to the bump or elsewhere. I mean you can have a girl and her not be super feminine or a boy and him not be super masculine or into the stuff you want/expect him/her to be. I don't get being disappointed in a sex because people of the same sex can be sooooo different.
I wanted a little boy because I had that picture in my head of playing cars and baseball.. then I realized my potential son may not ever have interest in those things.. it was stupid of me to try to put those expectations on a little human that isn't even born yet!

[imoan]

I'll be the one to admit it... I really, really want a girl. Although I see the good points of a boy too. I'm sure i have a moment of slight disappointment, but then will get excited about having a son.

[imoan]

Oct 13, 2012 12:45:14 GMT -5 tators said:

Oct 13, 2012 12:35:36 GMT -5 imoan said:

I'll be the one to admit it... I really, really want a girl. Although I see the good points of a boy too. I'm sure i have a moment of slight disappointment, but then will get excited about having a son.

See I get that, I really do. but would you come post it here? I so highly doubt that you would.

Nah... I'd keep that shit to Chat and then would move on.

[imoan]

Oct 13, 2012 13:05:53 GMT -5 tators said:

Oct 13, 2012 12:54:30 GMT -5 imoan said:

Nah... I'd keep that shit to Chat and then would move on.

ha you can tell us. Its because you want to use the name Lorelei isnt it?

Haha... Not really. I just see myself raising a girl. And damn, the clothes are so much cuter

[jessuhmarie]

Oct 13, 2012 12:32:46 GMT -5 tators said:

Yeah I almost wrote something on there. Jessah you areon the March board huh?

Unfortunately.. I lurk other BMBs and I think March blows the most.

[mudslide]

It irritates me to no end. We are soooo blessed to even be expecting. We just want a healthy baby.

[alzi]

Oct 13, 2012 13:23:19 GMT -5 jessuhmarie said:

Oct 13, 2012 12:32:46 GMT -5 tators said:

Yeah I almost wrote something on there. Jessah you areon the March board huh?

Unfortunately.. I lurk other BMBs and I think March blows the most.

It really does.

I opened that post and immediately closed it.

[jessuhmarie]

I really don't know why it sucks the most. I guess bc the decent people rarely post bc it is over-run with stupid. Some days I get the urge to troll and head over there and open the stupid posts and speak my mind. Most days I just exit quickly or don't open it at all.

[alzi]

There was one post with a girl talking about going on a diet. And instead of people telling her how stupid she was, everyone was nicely explaining the importance of eating a well balance diet. That was the turning point for my head exploding over there.

[joolz]

Yikes on the diet and the post about wishing it was the other kind of baby. Ridiculous. I mean sure, a lot of people have an idea of what they would like, but all we really want are healthy babies.

[candreco]

Oct 13, 2012 17:45:13 GMT -5 jessuhmarie said:

I really don't know why it sucks the most. I guess bc the decent people rarely post bc it is over-run with stupid. Some days I get the urge to troll and head over there and open the stupid posts and speak my mind. Most days I just exit quickly or don't open it at all.

I'm on there too, and some days I can post, but most days I'll start to reply, I realize I have no idea how to make my answer not sound bitchy, or realize the futility of it, and just give up.