Hello everyone...just found the site today. And wow, I'm glad I did. I've been married for over 6 years, together for almost 11. We have 2 little ones together (almost 3 and almost 4). I'm 32 years old from Upstate NY. We just started the mediation process last week. So far so good. Clearly the hardest parts have not started yet. I'm happy I found you all!