ASW visited yesterday and cleared the air, it was weird. I talked to the old FCSW last month to get some advice about ASW, FCSW turned around and told ASW what we discussed so ASW wanted to clear my misconceptions up.
ASW says she is happy with the progress she sees in the relationship between Owl and I (this is what has been under the microscope) and she will make a decision at Owl's second round of evals in a couple weeks as to whether or not she wants the girls to stay with us. The decision depends on what the neuropsych has to say about Owl's level of attachment to me. If all goes well at the evals, ASW will be interviewing us for adoption in the following weeks.
I am still nervous and not really trusting of the ASW but feel better.