I should let him bring this up, right?

[Bernadine]

J's dad died when we were in high school. While I was bored Monday, I was looking through J's fb page and saw a post last year on Nov. 1 mentioning the anniversary of his dad's death. obviously, that's tomorrow. Should I mention anything about it, or let him do it?

[doriswe]

Let him bring it up....he knows he can talk to you if he needs to.

[kaneen]

I would let him bring it up if he wants to. He may not want to be reminded of the anniversary.

[Muddled]

Let him do it. If he wants to talk about it, he'll let you know.

This relationship seems so nice and thoughtful and easy. I am really happy for you.

[Bernadine]

Oct 31, 2012 8:42:44 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Let him do it. If he wants to talk about it, he'll let you know.

This relationship seems so nice and thoughtful and easy. I am really happy for you.

It really is, I can't believe it. I feel so comfortable with him, and we have very honest, open conversations.

[prettyinpearls]

I'm in the let him bring it up camp. It's not your place, but you already know that.

[Deleted]

Oct 31, 2012 8:18:09 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Let him bring it up....he knows he can talk to you if he needs to.

Agree :Y:

[stephbfan]

Oct 31, 2012 8:44:32 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

Oct 31, 2012 8:42:44 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Let him do it. If he wants to talk about it, he'll let you know.

This relationship seems so nice and thoughtful and easy. I am really happy for you.

It really is, I can't believe it. I feel so comfortable with him, and we have very honest, open conversations.

:Y: :Y:

[hobs209]

Oct 31, 2012 8:44:32 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

Oct 31, 2012 8:42:44 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Let him do it. If he wants to talk about it, he'll let you know.

This relationship seems so nice and thoughtful and easy. I am really happy for you.

It really is, I can't believe it. I feel so comfortable with him, and we have very honest, open conversations.

This makes me so happy for you!

[BlueBayou]

Oct 31, 2012 8:44:32 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

Oct 31, 2012 8:42:44 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Let him do it. If he wants to talk about it, he'll let you know.

This relationship seems so nice and thoughtful and easy. I am really happy for you.

It really is, I can't believe it. I feel so comfortable with him, and we have very honest, open conversations.

Love this. Im happy for you!

[bullygirl979]

Agree with the others. If it seems like it is really bothering him, you could always just say "You seem really down..." and let it go from there. That would open the door for him to talk if he wants to.