Post by Laura Palmer on Nov 2, 2012 9:43:46 GMT -5
I'm hosting Thanksgiving. And I'm having more people than I have of the napkins I wanted to use. (They're gorgeous and I love them.) I have plenty of white and I suppose I can give a few people white ones...but is that tacky? I'm so mad! They don't sell the ones I want more of, or I'd just get more. (Nothing on ebay, online, or in stores.) I hate mismatched things - not my style, even though I don't think anyone would notice or care. But I care!
Use the white ones, rotate them in half and half to make it look intentional and call it a day. Or go get some in a coordinating color/pattern and rotate them in. When hosting a major holiday esp. for more than 10 people I think it's expected you won't have enough of any one thing. We rotate Thanksgiving for 40ish every year. I'm not storing that much extra stuff to use every 4 years.
And if anyone at my house b*tches about something like napkin selection well they don't have to come back!
I'd rotate with a coordinating napkin. Does white match what you have on the table? I'm just picturing cream or fall colored Tday linens and white would stick out like a sore thumb and make it look worse.
Post by mrs.jacinthe on Nov 2, 2012 12:22:17 GMT -5
Another vote for rotating them every other place setting. That way it looks intentional.
Also ... when I was a kid and mom hosted the entire family for thanksgiving, we used washcloths for napkins at the kids' table so that the nice napkins wouldn't get spoiled by the sloppies.
Do you have more than one table of people? We have thirty-ish people every year, and I decorate each table differently. Different linens, plates, centerpieces, etc.
Post by Laura Palmer on Nov 2, 2012 12:35:31 GMT -5
Thanks ladies. I could rotate the white and might have to do that. I'm just feeling bratty and don't want to have to do that. We're having 10 and should fit at one table, so unfortunately it's not an option to have different settings.
The white could go. Not sure what color tablecloth yet, but all my dishes are white and I like the white against any of my linen options. Oh well!
Post by Laura Palmer on Nov 3, 2012 10:27:47 GMT -5
lol they're not really anything special.
Sur La Table bistro napkins in taupe. The color is just really pretty and I think they're so soft and just...very nice. My other napkins are so BLAH and I get excited to use these. They're really nothing special to anyone except me.