I've been feeling the baby randomly for probably a week and a half to two weeks now, but it was pretty light, felt kind of like a worm wriggling in there, and mostly when I was hunched over. He apparently doesn't like being squished.
I think I actually felt a couple of kicks when I put my hand on my stomach today! It was pretty cool.
Or else it was gas or a spasm or something. I'm choosing to think it was the baby, that's less gross.
On the fruit thing, I think sometimes it's "the weight of a ..." and sometimes it's "the length of a..." At least that's how I rationalized it when the fruits didn't seem to line up correctly in my head. And congrats on feeling outside kicking. That's when my H decided we could start talking about names, because before that he said it didn't feel real to him!