RP from ML- two weeks and a long update!

[Bernadine]

Two weeks! My lawyer has already sent the paperwork to the court- it will be filed on the 21st.

I moved all of my stuff out of the house this weekend. Background- a few weeks ago, I stopped by the house and there were multiple, large holes in the walls. One in the office and one in the basement. Also in the basement wall were about 20 bullet holes. Some of the casings were still in the wall, some were laying on the floor. From a 45 caliber handgun. I have no idea if xh has a gun- he didn't while we were together.

At that point, I decided I no longer felt comfortable leaving my furniture and belongings in the house. I don't know who's going in there, or what's going on, but obviously, xh is out of control. I thought about going in immediately, but I wouldn't have felt comfortable without a police officer with me. And xh had pot laying out all over the house. And with his recent DUI conviction, it probably would have sent him to jail. I know some of you will disagree, but I didn't feel right about that, so I decided to wait until he went to Florida.

He left for Florida late Saturday. I went into the house while he was at work Saturday morning. He had taken all of the sports memoribilia out of the basement- several thousand dollars worth. So, he must have suspected I'd be in there. When I went there Sunday morning, after he had left, he had moved his two cars to the bottom of the driveway to block me from getting in. We were able to move the one car that I had a key to, but the other car was still blocking half of the driveway.

I had movers scheduled for Monday. When I got there Monday morning, someone had moved the car still in the driveway so that it was sideways, again, completely blocking the driveway. I went to the Sheriff's office, there was nothing they could do. I went to his parents, and they didn't have a key. I ended up calling a tow truck and it was towed to the end of the road.

Ugh. But the good news is, everything is out. Although he can still damage the house, at least my things are safe. I took more than I had planned, because he fucking pissed me off, but I still think I was pretty fair. I just can't wait for this to be over.

[doriswe]

Oh Bernadine....what a mess. I'm glad it's almost over and you got your stuff back. Crossing my fingers the next 2 weeks go by quietly and quickly!!

((hugs))

[starburst604]

Jesus, I'm sorry. Sounds like he's gone off the deep end. What's going to happen with the house, will it be sold?

[udscoobychick]

Nov 7, 2012 8:14:28 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Oh Bernadine....what a mess. I'm glad it's almost over and you got your stuff back. Crossing my fingers the next 2 weeks go by quietly and quickly!!

((hugs))

:Y: :Y:

Are you on the hook for the damage that he does to the house?

[Bernadine]

I'm hoping he'll be held responsible for the damage, I would think a judge would agree that he should be. I'm not sure what's going to happen to the house. I'd like to sell it, but only if he agrees to move out while it's on the market, and I'm not sure he'll do that.

[gozf]

Bern, I'm so glad you got your stuff, and I'm so sorry that he's coming more and more unhinged. I cna't wait for all of this headache to be over, so you can be truly free of this.

[Deleted]

Glad you are out, not glad you let him off easy again.

[bullygirl979]

Glad you got your stuff, Bern!! Stay safe!

[prettyinpearls]

What an ass. I'm glad you were able to get your stuff out safely, despite his DB attempts to hinder you.

[turtle1120]

I'm glad you got your stuff out, and hopefully everything will be over soon!

[winecat]

I'm glad you are okay and got your stuff out.

[jojoandleo]

WOW!!! I am so sorry you had to deal with that. Who do you think moved his car?

[GilliC]

What a nuisance!

[dakotadangerdog]

Holy shit this guy just keeps getting worse and worse!! I hope he gets his shit together What a crazy asshole.

[Deleted]

Wow this is insanity. Seriously, the bullet holes would scare me a little. Glad you took all your stuff back and that in less than 2 weeks you can finally file!!!!!!!