From the 1st Tri board on TB (long)

[urbancowgirl]

I have no words.

"today me and my boyfriend fought again. it started like this...

it felt extremely nauseous this morning. i told him i felt sick but he was busy working at other stuff after he came home from class. i still felt hungry though so i made some noodles for myself and could barely ate it. i told him again i felt really unwell. he ate some of my noodles and told me to watch a movie or something, do something that i enjoy doing to make me feel better. i told him i felt really sick and had lots of work to finish myself too and if i had the energy to watch a movie i would rather spend the energy and time on my work. he went to the couch and started playing with his phone, probably just looking at websites and working. i told him again i felt sick and wanted his help. he asked him what he could do. i was like i don't know. then he went back to his work. i didn't feel finished so i told him can you stop working on your phone for a little while and pay a little attention to me? then he was like i asked you what i can help and you said you don't know. i have to work all day and have *** to do and when you yell at me for not doing them. now i am working. i was like can you give me some time you watched tv the whole night before you have the time to pay attention to me. then i started screaming soooo loud and cried and he followed me to the bedroom. i was crying and he was lying in the other end of the bed telling me to come to his side. i hated it so much i just thought he didnt care or didnt understand how i felt. i told him i cant have this baby with you if you act like this. then he was like then make an abortion appointment. should i be with this guy and have the baby or should i have an abortion and move on.

later he cleaned up the house and offered me juice and asked me if i wanted him to drive me anywhere. but no hugs or comforting words. we called unplanned parenthood and made an appointment for next friday. the nurse wanted to do it this friday but i told him it will make me very sick and i have too much work to do next week. i also said i am worried i am going to bleed for a long time and i dont know how i can work like that. he was like you can get tempons and pads. i told him it is not like i will just bleed but i cant feel anything.

what is wrong with him? does he really love me?

i am so confused and need advice."

[urbancowgirl]

She goes on to say:

"our relationship is short and weak. we have only been together a little more than 2 months. everything felt great and i liked him a lot until i found out i am pregnant."

Am I an evil B for laughing at this?

[janedoe]

This sounds like a sad sad person. That poor child

[urbancowgirl]

I really hope that it's made up, because it's just too sad if it's true.

[imoan]

Am *I* an evil bitch because once I read through all of it, I thought "guy you've known for 2 months, broke as fuck, still in college, clearly crazy... maybe you need to get a schmasmortion"

[alzi]

Nov 7, 2012 17:56:27 GMT -5 imoan said:

Am *I* an evil bitch because once I read through all of it, I thought "guy you've known for 2 months, broke as fuck, still in college, clearly crazy... maybe you need to get a schmasmortion"

:Y: :Y:

[imoan]

Nov 7, 2012 19:26:17 GMT -5 @iamsnazzy said:

Yeeeeeah. That guy is probably like "what the everloving fuck did I get myself into?!"

And THAT is why you don't knock up someone who've you known for three whole minutes!

[mrssandro]

Nov 7, 2012 18:09:00 GMT -5 ruxin said:

Nov 7, 2012 17:56:27 GMT -5 imoan said:

Am *I* an evil bitch because once I read through all of it, I thought "guy you've known for 2 months, broke as fuck, still in college, clearly crazy... maybe you need to get a schmasmortion"

*sits next to imoan*

Except without the maybe.

:Y: :Y:

[emisi]

Woooooooooooooooow. She sounds like a whole lot of special. Bet that dude drops her ten minutes after they walk out of PP.

[emisi]

Ha, okay, so I went looking for that post, and I found another.

Hi,

I'm 10 weeks pregnant, and we are very excited. My mother-in-law has been living with us since she lost her house last year, and she is now in her last stages of cancer, with no desire for treatment. I feel for her, and spend a lot of time taking care of her. I even quit my job to make sure she had someone home all the time and we became very close. However, ever since she found out I was pregnant, she has become very bitter towards me. She makes a point to tell me stories of stillborns and miscarriages. When I made a decision to have a natural child birth, she ragged on me constantly about how I would hate myself for my choices, and tried to scare me away from it. I caught her telling my stepson that when the baby comes he will have to sleep outside. Even though I quit smoking cigarettes the moment I found out I was expecting, she begs me to smoke with her.She hid my prenatal vitamins, She even tried to spike my orange juice with alcohol. It must be terrifying for her, to be faced with death and obviously my pregnancy bothers her somehow. I am trying to be understanding but I spend almost all of my time taking care of a woman who hates my baby. I'm wondering if anyone has any advice or similar stories to share? She has very little time left and I don't know if a direct confrontation would help. Before the cancer she was very loving and even made hopeful comments about grandbabies. I know this isn't "her" but I feel like I must always be aware and protective of my baby because I don't know what she will do next.

[blindyswife]

I saw that post today, too. What a clusterfuck.

[Deleted]

Somehow, these people make me feel remarkably happy with my own life choices.

[ladygrey]

Some of these have to be mud, right?

[winofairy]

Nov 8, 2012 0:17:47 GMT -5 @villainv said:

Somehow, these people make me feel remarkably happy with my own life choices.

:Y: Exactly this ^^^

[urbancowgirl]

Nov 7, 2012 20:23:34 GMT -5 emisi said:

I'm wondering if anyone has any advice or similar stories to share? She has very little time left and I don't know if a direct confrontation would help. Before the cancer she was very loving and even made hopeful comments about grandbabies. I know this isn't "her" but I feel like I must always be aware and protective of my baby because I don't know what she will do next.

Similar stories??? Really???

[jssymom14]

Nov 8, 2012 0:17:47 GMT -5 @villainv said:

Somehow, these people make me feel remarkably happy with my own life choices.

sits next to you