Just had a phone fight w/DH about Christmas gifts

[hisno1girl]

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I wouldn't apologize. No fucking way.

NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEER! Not for this.

Unless his idea for an appropriate present is one of those face grabbers from the Alien movies.

[cleo29]

Why is he reluctant to believe that something happened? Did Moonpie ever say anything happen (I can't remember now) or was it just the herpes diagnosis?

[PinkSquirrel]

No apology necessary. Your H must be fucking high because there isn't a chance in hell I would be buying douchebag a gift

[sprky79]

Get him a free month of Valtrex?

[fuckstick]

Even if he wasn't at fault, I still wouldn't buy him shit based solely on the fact that he's a worthless sack of turds.

[jaylea]

No need to apologize. You are completely correct. Eff that guy.

[Deleted]

There's no way in the almighty forces of hell I would ever give that fucker anything.

If your H really wants to, he can get him something and keep your name out of it.

Holy jesus I don't know what I'd do in your situation, His. I'm so sorry.

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Nov 27, 2012 12:05:55 GMT -5 fuckstick said:

Even if he wasn't at fault, I still wouldn't buy him shit based solely on the fact that he's a worthless sack of turds.

:Y: :Y: :Y:

[ering1115]

Nov 27, 2012 12:04:42 GMT -5 @sprky79 said:

Get him a free month of Valtrex?

I was going to go with a tube of Abreva (sp?)

I wouldn't be able to bring myself to buy him anything either. My gmom used to buy my aunt's abusive baby daddy gifts at Christmas because she "wanted to keep the peace". I never understood that.

[bonquiqui]

Team his. No apology

[fuckstick]

FUCK the peace. Abusers/shiftless assholes/possible child molesters deserve NOTHING but a merry old curbstomping.

[ECB]

Since when are gifts required, anyhow? My jaw is on the floor that your DH feels it would be "wrong" to not get him soemthing.

WTF?

[imoan]

Don't you dare apologize. I would LOVE to hear your H's explanation for how toddlers just randomly end up with herpes.

[shoeless]

Team no apologies necessary. Everything about your H's behavior has me mad for you!

[cleo29]

Nov 27, 2012 12:02:15 GMT -5 hisno1girl said:

Cleon, our Moonpie is only 18 months old. She can't verbalize, and that's precisely why the matter was closed.

that's right, I am so sorry. Did they ever do play therapy to see if she tell them, through play, what happened?

I don't think you need to apologize here, unless you feel bad about hanging up on him instead of signing off with "ciao jerkface!"

[sprky79]

Get him one counseling session, and her one consult with a divorce lawyer?

If DH insists on gifting this douchecanoe, give them something practical :-)

[scotty]

Omg, I would also lose it. I'm sorry. No gifts for him, ever.

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Nov 27, 2012 12:09:17 GMT -5 fuckstick said:

FUCK the peace. Abusers/shiftless assholes/possible child molesters deserve NOTHING but a merry old curbstomping.

I love you, fuckstick.

[Deleted]

Nothing is probably better than the kick in the balls he deserves. A HARD kick.

[fuckstick]

Nov 27, 2012 12:14:33 GMT -5 @habbsies said:

Nov 27, 2012 12:09:17 GMT -5 fuckstick said:

FUCK the peace. Abusers/shiftless assholes/possible child molesters deserve NOTHING but a merry old curbstomping.

I love you, fuckstick.

I'll be in your stocking Christmas Eve.
Bow chicka woww

[Deleted]

I just don't get people. I wouldn't allow him in my home, or get him a gift, or even want anyone to do that. WTF is with people

[ECB]

Plus also- if you never see him, I assume you won't actually be "celebrating Christmas" with him, so how on earth would he ever really know that he's the only one who you didn't get something for?

And WHO CARES what he thinks? I just don't get your DH on this.

[speckledfrog]

YH is a peace keeping under the rug sweeper. No gift, no apology. TEAM HIS!

[hisno1girl]

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[HiC]

I'm on the verge of tears and this post might just push me to it. I hate her dad fiercely and if I could, I'd electrocute him.

[cleo29]

Nov 27, 2012 12:18:28 GMT -5 hisno1girl said:

Nov 27, 2012 12:11:21 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

that's right, I am so sorry. Did they ever do play therapy to see if she tell them, through play, what happened?

I don't think you need to apologize here, unless you feel bad about hanging up on him instead of signing off with "ciao jerkface!"

This all happened during the summer when she was 11 months old. She isn't/wasn't old enough.

I think you need to stick to your guns here. I think you have mentioned other reasons to not like this guy. Hey, maybe just wrap up a bundle of coal.

[hopecounts]

Nov 27, 2012 11:58:39 GMT -5 @habbsies said:

I wouldn't apologize. No fucking way.

NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEER! Not for this.

Unless his idea for an appropriate present is one of those face grabbers from the Alien movies.

yes all of this,

[hisno1girl]

Nov 27, 2012 12:16:48 GMT -5 ECB said:

Plus also- if you never see him, I assume you won't actually be "celebrating Christmas" with him, so how on earth would he ever really know that he's the only one who you didn't get something for?

And WHO CARES what he thinks? I just don't get your DH on this.

They will know because all of our other kids will talk about their presents on FB.

IDGAF what he (Douchebag) thinks.

[Kit]

I'm with you - I wouldn't be buying him anything either.