A Blessing

[rikkiandjulie]

Julie and I have been living together for the past month, while we both decide where we are headed. I'm still headed to Kansas City to grow and heal. Julie is headed back home to Iowa City to live with her brother and heal. The other night she mentioned how all of this has taught her a lot and how she'd like to work things out (me too baby, me too). She also mentioned that it was going to take her time, and asked me to be patient. I understood 100%. Since then we have decided that once we are both settled (after Jan 1st) we will have a 90min session with a counselor once a month in Des Moines. (Halfway between both places) I know once a month doesn't seem like much but it's a starting place and we will quickly know if its fixable or we need to let go 100%. It's a start to getting our life back, and I'll take the smallest steps necessary. It's becoming more and more clear that saving this marriage is worth it to me.


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[joyseattle]

Sounds like a good plan!

[2brides]

that sounds like a great plan. I am impressed how you are trying to work this out and are being patient.

[rikkiandjulie]

2Bridea, honestly I'm surprised too, but you don't realize how much you love someone til it's almost too late right? I'm just blessed she's willing to try.


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[seattlekari]

Wow, that sounds like a great step and hopefully it will help both of you to heal. Good luck!

[hlke]

I'm glad you guys have found a way forward that works for both of you. (((hugs)))