Not really fair to take it out on her (the new GF). Realistically he's probably feeding her a pack of lies. Feel free to abuse the fuck out of his pathetic ass though.
Not really fair to take it out on her (the new GF). Realistically he's probably feeding her a pack of lies. Feel free to abuse the fuck out of his pathetic ass though.
Not really fair to take it out on her (the new GF). Realistically he's probably feeding her a pack of lies. Feel free to abuse the fuck out of his pathetic ass though.
True. Are you speaking from experience?
Not to downplay what Ala is going through, I wouldn't wish that on anyone. Her situation sounds like shit, piled on shit, piled on shit. I hope for nothing but great things for her, and I wish there was more help that I could offer than good vibes and a *hug*.
That said, I'm sure we have all had bad relationships and sometimes when you're in the middle of it, it's hard to see the forest for the trees. I can only assume that he lied and or misrepresented himself when he was dating her. So it's a pretty safe assumption that he will continue to do so to others. The new GF just happens to be the one he's lying to now.
I personally have an ex that I am glad I never have to deal with again. I was lied to, had money stolen from me, and was verbally abused. Thankfully no children were involved so the divorce wasn't as complicated as it could have been.
Post by alabasterangel on Dec 5, 2012 17:43:22 GMT -5
I don't doubt that he lies to her and I currentky have no problems with the new GF. I have problems w him not having his priorities straight and putting her time and schedule before what is best for the kids.
Post by sapphire bou on Dec 5, 2012 17:49:29 GMT -5
Hey, Ala. Do you think your life would be much better if STBXH were to just stop caring altogether and drop out of their life? Or would you like for your kids to know their father?
I'm just asking out of curiosity. Don't feel obligated to answer.
Hey, Ala. Do you think your life would be much better if STBXH were to just stop caring altogether and drop out of their life? Or would you like for your kids to know their father?
I'm just asking out of curiosity. Don't feel obligated to answer.
My life would be exponentially better and easier and more enjoyable if he disappeared. I think their lives would be better having a caring and capable father. Right now this being there but failing is working for them but it will start failing horribly in the near future. So given that he isn't likely to get his shit unfucked it would probably be better long term for them if he quit now before they were old enough to have hopes and expectations.
Post by sapphire bou on Dec 5, 2012 21:11:21 GMT -5
Well in that case, I hope he stops trying to act like he cares. From what I've seen with friends and family, the childen are better off not having anything to do with their POS parent.
And now I'll start hoping that he'll drop off the face of the earth.