Him wanting to do you in a bathroom-A-OK, him wanting to remember a memorable night = stalker? Because sex is not about emotions? So, you would rather him JUST want to fuck you with no feelings? Is this real life?
Yep. Listen I know it's weird ladies. But as some background, my husband was my first (just by coincidence, not as an I'm waiting thing) and he had a major madonna/whore complex. So I became used to that. After that I just had some FWBs. So I've never really attached sex and emotions. Yes I realize it's an issue and one I'm working on. But it is really hard.