I pretty much want to cancel, but I feel like I would have lead him on at this point, and I do like everything else about him, but this really gives me pause. What do you think ladies? Dump or give another shot?
that is really weird. I am not sure what I would do
Um sadly I'm pretty sure he was serious. He texted me and was like "BTW I stole my whiskey glass from the other night."
I assumed he meant he forgot to drop it off at one of the bars. The place we went serves you drinks and you can wander around the property. So I thought it was one those things where he walked back to the car with it and was like "huh. I guess I'll just keep it." so I was was all like "ha! why?"
And then he dropped the momento bomb. WTF? and WHY would he TELL me?
Post by dakotadangerdog on Dec 10, 2012 13:03:31 GMT -5
lol personally I don't think that's creepy, it sounds like something I would do. Not because like I'd want a memento of the person, but that'd be way out of character for me and I think it'd be funny to have a memento from that time I boned a guy in the bathroom of a resort.
lol personally I don't think that's creepy, it sounds like something I would do. Not because like I'd want a memento of the person, but that'd be way out of character for me and I think it'd be funny to have a memento from that time I boned a guy in the bathroom of a resort.
lol personally I don't think that's creepy, it sounds like something I would do. Not because like I'd want a memento of the person, but that'd be way out of character for me and I think it'd be funny to have a memento from that time I boned a guy in the bathroom of a resort.
This is a really weird thing to be pearl-clutchy about.
It's NOT about the stealing. I'm creeped out the fact that a guy saved something as a "momento" of him hooking up with me and we've been on two dates. It just seems to be a bit much for me.
PDX, I think you're seeing red flags for the sake of keeping your walls up.
I think this could be true, which is why I wanted to ask on here. I'm really having difficulty this one. I have a HUGE urge to just push him away at this point.
This is a really weird thing to be pearl-clutchy about.
It's NOT about the stealing. I'm creeped out the fact that a guy saved something as a "momento" of him hooking up with me and we've been on two dates. It just seems to be a bit much for me.
It's NOT about the stealing. I'm creeped out the fact that a guy saved something as a "momento" of him hooking up with me and we've been on two dates. It just seems to be a bit much for me.
I really think he was kidding.
So he isn't starting a shrine of me in his room? Now I'm a little disappointed.
PDX, I think you're seeing red flags for the sake of keeping your walls up.
I think this could be true, which is why I wanted to ask on here. I'm really having difficulty this one. I have a HUGE urge to just push him away at this point.
Maybe you're just not that into him (how cliche, I know) and are using the glass thing as an excuse to write him off?