Post by verycontrary247 on Mar 28, 2013 22:54:34 GMT -5
nursewife police says since we are both technically residents, neither of us is allowed to change the locks or force the other from the house without a legal order or separation agreement.
Post by verycontrary247 on Mar 28, 2013 23:01:41 GMT -5
LeggsBenedict -Yes, he was. He was staying with a friend all weekend. I was counting on him staying with his parents for the rest of the time, but apparently when he 'fessed up the full story of what happened to his dad FIL basically told him he was a shitbag for doing that to me and now he will not ask if he can stay there.
I was feeling guilty that he would be paying for the house but not be able to stay there. I wasn't going to try to force him to stay on the boat/barracks/whatever while he was acting like a reasonable, rational adult so I agreed he could stay in the extra room as long as he didn't act like a psycho.
I don't know that branch all that well, but I know they have some form of temporary emergency protective order that a friend of mine had to get.
Civilian protection orders must also be enforced on base. So, if you can't or don't want to find a military resource, don't be afraid to call a local civilian hotline.
He does not need to ever come back. You have texts and a witness to the threats.