An explanation of sorts ... long

[Beener]

I hate drama so I'm not going to touch it but adub, I just want to say that I really feel for you and am sorry you are experiencing and have experienced IF. ((hugs))

[eav2c]

Jul 28, 2013 18:35:22 GMT -5 @therealmc said:

Jul 28, 2013 18:22:22 GMT -5 kkfeb04 said:

Oh FFS. That post that blondiesbored made about TTC #2 was that intriguing to message you to take a look. Why? WTF is the point of that, really?

Because there are certain jerks on this board who love to stir shit up.

Are you referring to people specifically or generalizing? I honestly don't know what would make someone message her about Blondie's post. I didn't see anything crazy about it.

[rxbeth]

@adub09 - I PMed you.

[raynes]

Seriously, why even bring rxbeth and I into this? That was not a good moment for you (and yes, it was very bad) and has absolutely no bearing on this situation whatsoever (other than maybe your a bit of an AW).

I do not think that you are very good at filtering when it comes to the Internet.

It sucks that you've got IF, yes, but I don't think that it's fair at all for you to marginalize or trivialize what other people have been through or are going through.

[spaghetticat]

Jul 28, 2013 18:35:22 GMT -5 @therealmc said:

Jul 28, 2013 18:22:22 GMT -5 kkfeb04 said:

Oh FFS. That post that blondiesbored made about TTC #2 was that intriguing to message you to take a look. Why? WTF is the point of that, really?

Because there are certain jerks on this board who love to stir shit up.

This is becoming more and more apparent. But who?

[ruby412]

I'm sorry that you're struggling, adub. I hope things start looking up for you and your TTC journey soon.

[spaghetticat]

Jul 28, 2013 20:14:27 GMT -5 @chelsmonster said:

Whaaat. This just got weird and really uncomfortable, quick.

Yeah, I was trying to think of what to say, and that pretty much sums it up for me. Not necessary to get into the past. I'm sorry if me saying I was curious encouraged someone to dredge that up. 

[Deleted]

I hope whoever sends you messages about posts here is a lurker and not an actual poster cause that's not cool...

[Deleted]

Hey guys. @adub09 came to apologize. Yes, she did bring up other info but that is between her, rxbeth and raynes . That info does not pertain to what she is trying to do at this moment which is to apologize for her posts. We all have skeletons in our closets you know.

[rxbeth]

I don't really see why she would bring me and raynes into it unless she wanted to start drama.

That said, I PMed her because I was concerned because we all know we have lurkers and didn't want her offending post to be linked.

I just hope the link doesn't make anything worse for her.

[charmediamsure]

Jul 28, 2013 20:31:05 GMT -5 spaghetticat said:

Jul 28, 2013 20:14:27 GMT -5 @chelsmonster said:

Whaaat. This just got weird and really uncomfortable, quick.

Yeah, I was trying to think of what to say, and that pretty much sums it up for me. Not necessary to get into the past. I'm sorry if me saying I was curious encouraged someone to dredge that up. 

Ditto this.

[charlielove]

Soooo...now we aren't able to link posts from TB or TN? I realize an AE posted it, and that sucks. But still don't understand the deletion.

[blondiesbored]

I'm not exactly sure why my posts were brought up to you but I apologized for my reaction. It's really kind of shady because I didn't post anything I would consider scandalous!?!

The six years that I struggled with medication and the bfp's I got before my daughter (the pregnancies were lost) were enough sadness for me and a huge lesson in how cruel life and IF can be. My goal for treatment was not just pregnancy but a healthy baby.Yes, I have a beautiful daughter now, I thank God for her every moment of the day. It doesn't lessen the horrible pain I endured during my TTC. Whoever, pmed you has issues of their own, just letting that float out there!

[eav2c]

Jul 28, 2013 20:43:05 GMT -5 charlielove said:

Soooo...now we aren't able to link posts from TB or TN? I realize an AE posted it, and that sucks. But still don't understand the deletion.

Well obvs we need to delete every linked post from here on out. TB historian basically said this herself. >.<

[Regina Philange]

I don't understand why something from a while ago would cause it to be posted in your fb wall now?

[browneyedhunni85]

I'm so confused.

[rxbeth]

Jul 28, 2013 20:47:55 GMT -5 Regina Philange said:

I don't understand why something from a while ago would cause it to be posted in your fb wall now?

I did not understand her FB remark, either.  I was NEVER FB friends with her and she defriended all the anniversary board ladies before the anniversary board even caught wind of the confession (from what I understand).  So whose babies is she refering to?  So much confusion.

[musiclover]

Jul 28, 2013 20:43:05 GMT -5 charlielove said:

Soooo...now we aren't able to link posts from TB or TN? I realize an AE posted it, and that sucks. But still don't understand the deletion.

This.

[lauranicole91]

Jul 28, 2013 20:47:57 GMT -5 browneyedhunni85 said:

I'm so confused.

You are not alone. I am so lost I can't even pretend to know what's going on.

[kkfeb04]

Jul 28, 2013 20:47:57 GMT -5 browneyedhunni85 said:

I'm so confused.

Me too.

[Deleted]

Jul 28, 2013 20:43:05 GMT -5 charlielove said:

Soooo...now we aren't able to link posts from TB or TN? I realize an AE posted it, and that sucks. But still don't understand the deletion.

It was asked to be deleted. So, it was deleted. If it wasnt asked to be deleted, it would still be there.

And who is the bump historian?! I have sooooo many questions. 

musiclover eav2c

[Deleted]

Jul 28, 2013 20:59:40 GMT -5 lauranicole91 said:

Jul 28, 2013 20:47:57 GMT -5 browneyedhunni85 said:

I'm so confused.

You are not alone. I am so lost I can't even pretend to know what's going on.

Haha at one point there was a link posted here to the really really old post she made that was flamed on some other board. The link for this was deleted here by a mod. That might be where the confusion is coming from?

[eav2c]

Jul 28, 2013 21:03:27 GMT -5 @smudgee said:

Jul 28, 2013 20:43:05 GMT -5 charlielove said:

Soooo...now we aren't able to link posts from TB or TN? I realize an AE posted it, and that sucks. But still don't understand the deletion.

It was asked to be deleted. So, it was deleted. If it wasnt asked to be deleted, it would still be there.

And who is the bump historian?! I have sooooo many questions. 

musiclover eav2c

There isn't really one. I was making a joke because the irony up in here is crazy.

[Deleted]

Jul 28, 2013 21:09:32 GMT -5 eav2c said:

Jul 28, 2013 21:03:27 GMT -5 @smudgee said:

It was asked to be deleted. So, it was deleted. If it wasnt asked to be deleted, it would still be there.

And who is the bump historian?! I have sooooo many questions. 

musiclover eav2c

There isn't really one. I was making a joke because the irony up in here is crazy.

Dammit Eav! And here I was so excited. lol.  

[AndyCohen]

Jul 28, 2013 21:14:25 GMT -5 @pcloadletter said:

I really feel like if it was a thread that involved us all to begin with then link away, but if it is from another board a long time ago just to stir shit it is weird to post.

I normally feel this way but she's the one that brought it up so it's not like someone posting random dirt on her to stir shit up. Just fartin'. I don't really care one way or another.

[browneyedhunni85]

Jul 28, 2013 20:57:39 GMT -5 @chelsmonster said:

She defriended me on FB. So I'm confused.

I've been defriended too.

[TrudyCampbell]

Looks like she's gone for good so we should all just forget about this.

[browneyedhunni85]

Looks like she deactivated. I'm still so lost about this whole ordeal.

[imimahoney]

Jul 28, 2013 21:01:37 GMT -5 kkfeb04 said:

Jul 28, 2013 20:47:57 GMT -5 browneyedhunni85 said:

I'm so confused.

Me too.

Yep.

I thought I knew what was going on but now I am so lost. 

[eav2c]

Jul 28, 2013 21:19:59 GMT -5 AndyCohen said:

Jul 28, 2013 21:14:25 GMT -5 @pcloadletter said:

I really feel like if it was a thread that involved us all to begin with then link away, but if it is from another board a long time ago just to stir shit it is weird to post.

I normally feel this way but she's the one that brought it up so it's not like someone posting random dirt on her to stir shit up. Just fartin'. I don't really care one way or another.

Exactly. Plus, PLENTY of things have been linked before that had nothing to do with the board as a whole but were flame worthy to a member of the board.

I'm not condoning making an AE and posting the link, FWIW. I just think we need to stick to a standard.