rxbethraynes dont feel bad my little Canadian koalas. (I know there are no koalas that are native to Canada, but if I called you my little Canadian beavers or my Canadian Moose..... doesnt have a ring to it)
Don't feel bad. Wasn't she just saying the other day that she wanted to leave. It seems like an attempt to stir the pot herself so she had a real reason to leave. I don't know. it was just very VERY strange.
Am I the only one still curious as to blondiesbored's Going For It post got got the bat signal? There was nothing inflammatory about it. Could it be the term IF? Such weirdness going on.
Post by creamsiclechica on Jul 28, 2013 21:49:55 GMT -5
There's a LOT about this that makes me uneasy.
Why is there ALWAYS some convenient AE lately that swoops in here, TB, or facebook to provide links to dramatic/condemning threads, or to message people to alert them of things? I don't get it.
Yes, skeletons, but if i didn't want anyone to know about certain skeletons then i wouldn't bring them up in the post.
I just don't get how something from several years ago is now invading her personal social media. That's weird and kinda freaky.
But Adubs- good luck to you and Spencer! He will make a great big brother.
I didn't get out of it that her personal privacy on social media was invaded now but back when the OP that was momentarily linked here was initially posted? Then when things went down here a few days back she deleted everyone because she had a previous bad experience that then escalated to social media and she didn't want that to happen again. I don't know, that's what I got out of it. I don't believe that what happened then was linked on her Facebook recently, no way, because I think it would have found its way here before today too if that was the case.
Am I the only one still curious as to blondiesbored's Going For It post got got the bat signal? There was nothing inflammatory about it. Could it be the term IF? Such weirdness going on.
Meh, I'm guessing that Adub was just lurking and couldn't hold back when she saw it. I doubt anyone messaged her about it because, uh, hello there was nothing inflammatory as you said!
Yes, skeletons, but if i didn't want anyone to know about certain skeletons then i wouldn't bring them up in the post.
I just don't get how something from several years ago is now invading her personal social media. That's weird and kinda freaky.
But Adubs- good luck to you and Spencer! He will make a great big brother.
I didn't get out of it that her personal privacy on social media was invaded now but back when the OP that was momentarily linked here was initially posted? Then when things went down here a few days back she deleted everyone because she had a previous bad experience that then escalated to social media and she didn't want that to happen again. I don't know, that's what I got out of it. I don't believe that what happened then was linked on her Facebook recently, no way, because I think it would have found its way here before today too if that was the case.
Oh that makes sense. I missed what went down when i was away that's why I was confused.
Yes, skeletons, but if i didn't want anyone to know about certain skeletons then i wouldn't bring them up in the post.
I just don't get how something from several years ago is now invading her personal social media. That's weird and kinda freaky.
But Adubs- good luck to you and Spencer! He will make a great big brother.
I didn't get out of it that her personal privacy on social media was invaded now but back when the OP that was momentarily linked here was initially posted? Then when things went down here a few days back she deleted everyone because she had a previous bad experience that then escalated to social media and she didn't want that to happen again. I don't know, that's what I got out of it. I don't believe that what happened then was linked on her Facebook recently, no way, because I think it would have found its way here before today too if that was the case.
This makes sense. I missed the drama from a few days ago, I think anyway, I don't remember seeing it.
Am I the only one still curious as to blondiesbored's Going For It post got got the bat signal? There was nothing inflammatory about it. Could it be the term IF? Such weirdness going on.
Okay, I am really curious about this as well. One of the reasons and this may make me out to look like a nut job but I left the bump because my crazy, obsessed sister in law (one that pretended to be me when she called my church back when we baptized W and pulled many other things including posting on her facebook that I shouldn't be allowed near children, including my own/I work with kids and am a good mother!!!) This whole thing leaves me thinking that my sil may have slithered her way into PB because we had cut her out of our lives back in September. She is fully capable of this and has created websites in my name on theknot.com years ago. I had hoped that maybe she would get some help but this really is a red flag to me. If it wasn't her, I brought up her nonsense for no reason where I usually don't mention her issues at all. If it is her, I think she should concentrate on her own life, own happiness and own marriage instead of try to destroy my family. So, if anyone has knowledge of who sent out the "bat signal" or WHY for that matter, would be helpful.
Am I the only one still curious as to blondiesbored's Going For It post got got the bat signal? There was nothing inflammatory about it. Could it be the term IF? Such weirdness going on.
Okay, I am really curious about this as well. One of the reasons and this may make me out to look like a nut job but I left the bump because my crazy, obsessed sister in law (one that pretended to be me when she called my church back when we baptized W and pulled many other things including posting on her facebook that I shouldn't be allowed near children, including my own/I work with kids and am a good mother!!!) This whole thing leaves me thinking that my sil may have slithered her way into PB because we had cut her out of our lives back in September. She is fully capable of this and has created websites in my name on theknot.com years ago. I had hoped that maybe she would get some help but this really is a red flag to me. If it wasn't her, I brought up her nonsense for no reason where I usually don't mention her issues at all. If it is her, I think she should concentrate on her own life, own happiness and own marriage instead of try to destroy my family. So, if anyone has knowledge of who sent out the "bat signal" or WHY for that matter, would be helpful.
Dude, no. This is the least plausible explanation, like, ever. I feel pretty confident saying your SIL is not connected.
Post by blondiesbored on Jul 28, 2013 23:10:14 GMT -5
I sure hope not. She found me on the bump months agp, said it was a friend of hers that found me but I knew she was lying. So I wouldn't be surprised if she created an account and followed us here. I am not paranoid, really. She is just way out of control and we have taken great strides to stay away from her. Thank you though. I just find it really weird that I appear to have been targeted about an IF post as if my IF issues were make believe or that just because I had a LO I had no reason to bring it up while ttc#2. At least that is what it seemed when I read the posts. I feel like an ass for going into the rant last night after a long day and a subject that I'm not all too happy to talk about BUT finding out there was a calling out on facebook is a whole weird turn I didn't expect. KWIM?
Post by blondiesbored on Jul 28, 2013 23:14:46 GMT -5
I am not sure just how friendly people are outside of the boards, that is the only reason I wondered about my sil. I know it is a longshot that it would have been her but because my sil was lurking TB back when everyone left for PB, she may have followed back then. I honestly can't put anything past her after I have seen her in action.
I am not sure just how friendly people are outside of the boards, that is the only reason I wondered about my sil. I know it is a longshot that it would have been her but because my sil was lurking TB back when everyone left for PB, she may have followed back then. I honestly can't put anything past her after I have seen her in action.
Okay, I am really curious about this as well. One of the reasons and this may make me out to look like a nut job but I left the bump because my crazy, obsessed sister in law (one that pretended to be me when she called my church back when we baptized W and pulled many other things including posting on her facebook that I shouldn't be allowed near children, including my own/I work with kids and am a good mother!!!) This whole thing leaves me thinking that my sil may have slithered her way into PB because we had cut her out of our lives back in September. She is fully capable of this and has created websites in my name on theknot.com years ago. I had hoped that maybe she would get some help but this really is a red flag to me. If it wasn't her, I brought up her nonsense for no reason where I usually don't mention her issues at all. If it is her, I think she should concentrate on her own life, own happiness and own marriage instead of try to destroy my family. So, if anyone has knowledge of who sent out the "bat signal" or WHY for that matter, would be helpful.
Oh boy. No offense- but I really don't think any of this has anything to do with you. I think this whole thing has to do with adub and her issues. Why would your SIL take the time to PM adub to point her towards your post, and then link an ancient thread about adub?
I didn't think my sil would have an AE to out Adub about anything, I do believe this is her issue with whatever is going on in her life right now. I just found it weird when Adub mentioned that she was alerted to the posts related to IF and for some reason offended by them. It just seemed like something else was going on there and because of my past with my sil I got a little weirded out.
Post by spaghetticat on Jul 29, 2013 6:52:15 GMT -5
But blondiesbored, you did use the term incorrectly,no? That's what she was picking on. I'm not saying it was right of her, but that's all it was. It's not like she attacked something personal about you.
Okay, I am really curious about this as well. One of the reasons and this may make me out to look like a nut job but I left the bump because my crazy, obsessed sister in law (one that pretended to be me when she called my church back when we baptized W and pulled many other things including posting on her facebook that I shouldn't be allowed near children, including my own/I work with kids and am a good mother!!!) This whole thing leaves me thinking that my sil may have slithered her way into PB because we had cut her out of our lives back in September. She is fully capable of this and has created websites in my name on theknot.com years ago. I had hoped that maybe she would get some help but this really is a red flag to me. If it wasn't her, I brought up her nonsense for no reason where I usually don't mention her issues at all. If it is her, I think she should concentrate on her own life, own happiness and own marriage instead of try to destroy my family. So, if anyone has knowledge of who sent out the "bat signal" or WHY for that matter, would be helpful.
Dude, no. This is the least plausible explanation, like, ever. I feel pretty confident saying your SIL is not connected.