Would you invite ML "friends" to your vow renewal?

[tisevee]

I'm just curious about this. Everyone seems to have great friends/support groups here. Would you want your ML friends to be a part of your vow renewal (if you ever plan to renew your vows)

[wambam]

No.

But I have a few internet friends I would invite.

ETA: Wait, I guess one does occasionally post here. Chelle

[MWOS]

depends on whether or not it's a bbq

[CheshireGrin]

I wouldn't have a vow renewal.

I did, however, invite a few ML friends to my Anti-Wedding Bonfire. If I were having an actual wedding I would have invited more, but needed to keep the guest list tight. There are a number of people I've met on ML over the years (some of whom don't even post here anymore) that have crossed the distinction between internet friend and IRL friend.

[Deleted]

If I were having a huge blow-out 400+ person wedding I'd totally invite some ML-ers.

But aren't vow renewals typically more intimate?

[Kit]

I have some that I'd totally invite (the ones I've met IRL, or talked to outside of GBCN).

[MWOS]

Aug 22, 2013 15:19:58 GMT -5 @starflower22 said:

This is random.

it totally isn't


WE ARE BUILDING UP TO SOMETHING GREAT HERE

[tisevee]

Aug 22, 2013 15:18:56 GMT -5 @amoosed said:

If I were having a huge blow-out 400+ person wedding I'd totally invite some ML-ers.

But aren't vow renewals typically more intimate?

I wouldn't know. I've been divorced twice in 6 years and haven't made it long enough for a vow renewal.

[Jermys]

If I were renewing my vows in the States, I would absolutely invite some MLers.

[LeggsBenedict]

no. but I didn't want to invite anybody to the wedding either, lol.

[CurlyQ284]

No. What if no one came? Then I'd know for sure that I'm an ML reject. I'd rather post happily in ignorance.

[Chelle]

Aug 22, 2013 15:15:32 GMT -5 wambam said:

No.

But I have a few internet friends I would invite.

ETA: Wait, I guess one does occasionally post here. Chelle

I might need a Snatchy bridesmaid!

[fuckyourcouch]

only if MWOS brings an ICE CHEST OF BEER

[wambam]

Aug 22, 2013 15:28:45 GMT -5 Chelle said:

Aug 22, 2013 15:15:32 GMT -5 wambam said:

No.

But I have a few internet friends I would invite.

ETA: Wait, I guess one does occasionally post here. Chelle

I might need a Snatchy bridesmaid!

I look smokin' hot in a dress

[Deleted]

Aug 22, 2013 15:23:09 GMT -5 cjoy said:

MN MLers, vow-BQ at my place. Bring a dish.

So a vow-luck?

[Deleted]

Aug 22, 2013 15:28:59 GMT -5 fuckyourcouch said:

only if MWOS brings an ICE CHEST OF BEER

You have to provide the biscuit bar.

[pantsparty]

I would invite the people I see regularly off-board. Then, I would hold a contest for ONE invitation for up to TWO people (no kids) for who can come up with the best pantsparty-inspired appreciation artwork! The winner would be invited to bartend at the vow renewal for the night.

[EmilieMadison]

Most of my very best IRL friends in the world are from here. Of course I'd invite them. But dont worry, friends, I'm NOT having a vow renewal ceremony. 

[malibu]

Aug 22, 2013 15:23:09 GMT -5 cjoy said:

MN MLers, vow-BQ at my place. Bring a dish.

Tater Tot Hot Dish OK?

[Deleted]

Yes.

[snickers]

I live in Canada, lets face it, no one would come, lol.

[VeryViolet]

Is this a trick question so ML can make fun of people who would consider a vow renewal?

[Deleted]

If I were ever to have a vow renewal, it would just be me and H. I wouldn't want to go to someone else's boring-ass vow renewal, so I wouldn't ask them to come to mine.

[EmilieMadison]

Aug 22, 2013 15:29:41 GMT -5 puddleofgrace said:

Aug 22, 2013 15:23:09 GMT -5 cjoy said:

MN MLers, vow-BQ at my place. Bring a dish.

I'll supply the folgers and the arbor mist.

I'll make bars. 

[EmilieMadison]

Aug 22, 2013 15:18:56 GMT -5 @amoosed said:

If I were having a huge blow-out 400+ person wedding I'd totally invite some ML-ers.

But aren't vow renewals typically more intimate?

No need to invite us, we're all just planning to crash your wedding! 

[spindle92]

Aug 22, 2013 15:52:43 GMT -5 EmilieMadison said:

Aug 22, 2013 15:29:41 GMT -5 puddleofgrace said:

I'll supply the folgers and the arbor mist.

I'll make bars. 

"bars" is such a MN thing and I love it!

[EmilieMadison]

Aug 22, 2013 16:00:52 GMT -5 spindle92 said:

Aug 22, 2013 15:52:43 GMT -5 EmilieMadison said:

I'll make bars. 

"bars" is such a MN thing and I love it!

Haha, it is! I've never made bars and I've only eaten them as a kid at church basement type events. When people mention bars, I think of establishments for drinking booze LOL

[Deleted]

Aug 22, 2013 15:47:20 GMT -5 cjoy said:

My vows expire in two years. Shit.

www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2013/08/13/211700456/would-some-marriages-be-better-if-couples-signed-wedleases

[pinkplasticdoll]

Aug 22, 2013 15:28:59 GMT -5 fuckyourcouch said:

only if MWOS brings an ICE CHEST OF BEER

Does it come with a boat full of guys we met? 

[underwaterrhymes]

There are a few people from ML I'd probably invite.