Post by letyourselfgo on Jun 20, 2012 21:43:17 GMT -5
I'm a hybrid of Charlotte and Miranda. For the record, as much as I love that show (I'm watching Season 5 right now)....I hated Carrie. A more annoying and shallow TV character there never was.
I like the way this conversation has gone...so much better and enjoyable! I've been laughing my butt off.
Me and my two closest girlfriends discussed which SATC characters we were. I was told I was Miranda since I had the kid first in my group and I was determined girl. We didn't have a friend like Samantha...I kind of wish I did, she could hook me up.
Post by letyourselfgo on Jun 20, 2012 21:52:07 GMT -5
Did anyone else hate Trey's Mom Bunny as much as I did/do? For the love of all that is holy.....may I not be cursed with such a biatch for a MIL, if I ever marry again.
I hated him AND his whole family. Except for that cousin or brother of his who was a Groomsman at their wedding, and ended up boning Samantha....he seemed very laid back.
I am completely happy that Charlotte ended up with Harry AND her happy ending. She completely deserved it.
I mean, I'm pretty kinky, so most porn just doesn't even phase me any more. It is more like a check list of "weird shit I've done." In all seriousness though, porn isn't a bad thing in my eyes. If you are using it to avoid your relationship, then yeah, it is then an issue. However, guys look at porn. Period. Actually, on that note, most girls do too! It is completely healthy to want to look and be aroused by something like that, but again, if you are looking at porn more than banging your partner, that is a problem. Of course, long distance relationships and certain circumstances are excluded, of course.
I hated him AND his whole family. Except for that cousin or brother of his who was a Groomsman at their wedding, and ended up boning Samantha....he seemed very laid back.
I am completely happy that Charlotte ended up with Harry AND her happy ending. She completely deserved it.
I loved Harry! Out of all the guys on the show, he seemed the most real.
I hated him AND his whole family. Except for that cousin or brother of his who was a Groomsman at their wedding, and ended up boning Samantha....he seemed very laid back.
I am completely happy that Charlotte ended up with Harry AND her happy ending. She completely deserved it.
I loved Harry! Out of all the guys on the show, he seemed the most real.
Yes he was. The scene at the Temple Singles Mixer when he proposed to Charlotte still makes me tear up.
I loved Harry! Out of all the guys on the show, he seemed the most real.
Yes he was. The scene at the Temple Singles Mixer when he proposed to Charlotte still makes me tear up.
That was a great. Or when he was taking care of Charlotte after her miscarriage. I liked the scene in the first movie where they are in the hospital and he is introducing the baby to Carrie.
Yes he was. The scene at the Temple Singles Mixer when he proposed to Charlotte still makes me tear up.
That was a great. Or when he was taking care of Charlotte after her miscarriage. I liked the scene in the first movie where they are in the hospital and he is introducing the baby to Carrie.
it's never bothered me, but it's also negatively affected my sex life with any SO...FI doesn't own any, doesn't watch it, and can't stand strip clubs...FI is also a lot tamer than a lot of guys I have been with, but for some reason I enjoy sex with him so much more. maybe it's because for the first time ever sex has an emotional componant to it.
i had my fun doing wild and crazy things, making video tapes with guys I was with, my wild side didn't need porn, it was a little wild on it's own.
I'm mostly a lurker, and I'm not giving you any side eye. In fact, I'm kind of giving you a "how you do-in" look.
And for the record, I like porn.
Now I'm insanely curious. I didn't get to see it before the DD!
I didn't get to see it before the DD either, I just think GOZF is pretty awesome in general. Hopefully that doesn't come off as creepy internet stalker-ish.
Porns ok. I'm not into guys who watch porn all the time or into crazy ass porn.. Gang bangs and rapes.. That's a little werid to me, but a porn about the mailman dropping a 'package off' ehh no big deal now and again as long as the boyfriend can tell real life from fantasy and it doesn't mess with our sex life, then I'm ok with it.
Post by dakotadangerdog on Jun 21, 2012 9:41:40 GMT -5
I have noooo problem with porn whatsoever, but it just doesn't do anything for me. I can't watch it. It just kinda weirds me out. I am a big fan of literotica though
Post by phoenixrising on Jun 21, 2012 9:57:07 GMT -5
I worked either night shift or weekends for my entire marriage, so our sex life was less than ideal. My H used that as an excuse for watching a LOT of PPV porn at $12 per movie. I actually used to pay the cable bill and would pay for his porn if it was two movies or less per month (clearly there were MANY ISSUES in this marriage). I actually feel neutrally toward it generally. I would not watch it alone but used to watch it with my H on occasion. I also never had issues with going to strip clubs with my H, although the last time we went, I definitely was less comfortable there than I was when I was in my 20s. I did, however, have issues with the amount of porn my H was watching on his own.
I worked either night shift or weekends for my entire marriage, so our sex life was less than ideal. My H used that as an excuse for watching a LOT of PPV porn at $12 per movie. I actually used to pay the cable bill and would pay for his porn if it was two movies or less per month (clearly there were MANY ISSUES in this marriage). I actually feel neutrally toward it generally. I would not watch it alone but used to watch it with my H on occasion. I also never had issues with going to strip clubs with my H, although the last time we went, I definitely was less comfortable there than I was when I was in my 20s. I did, however, have issues with the amount of porn my H was watching on his own.
I'm A-OK with porn in any of its legal forms. I view it as a way for people to express themselves and as a way for people to experiment with their bodies and sexual natures.
It's not for everyone, and I'm cool with that. I don't get off on pushing my preferences onto other people. I do get pissed off that others seem to think it's their place to tell me what is or is not healthy/right/moral/just. I am not you, and you are not me. If there's an addiction issue, it's not the porn's fault.
Even though I'm pretty free-wheeling in my attitudes about porn, I don't watch a lot of it. I usually reach for my imagination first since I can control the story that way, LOL. Sometimes I do want to see the human body in action though. I find it fascinating.
In college I worked in an adult video store. Some may find that shocking, but it just wasn't that big of a deal to me. My parents knew I worked there too, and they found it hilarious. They were always pretty open about sex and didn't tie any guilt or feelings of "dirtiness" to it. Seeing us out and about, you'd probably never suspect we're this liberal in our views.
I worked either night shift or weekends for my entire marriage, so our sex life was less than ideal. My H used that as an excuse for watching a LOT of PPV porn at $12 per movie. I actually used to pay the cable bill and would pay for his porn if it was two movies or less per month (clearly there were MANY ISSUES in this marriage). I actually feel neutrally toward it generally. I would not watch it alone but used to watch it with my H on occasion. I also never had issues with going to strip clubs with my H, although the last time we went, I definitely was less comfortable there than I was when I was in my 20s. I did, however, have issues with the amount of porn my H was watching on his own.
I'm ok with porn, especially if both people are enjoying it together, using it as foreplay, etc.
In the end of our marriage XH got REALLY into porn and he preferred to view it alone (or probably with many, many others, just not ME). It got to the point where it was pretty disturbing to find the things he was looking at so I probably have a little more of an issue with it because of that reason.
I honestly am not sure how I feel about this myself. I think the fine line where it is not harmful/disturbing is vague and can leave too much room for problems to arise if not handled carefully. With so much that is out there, some of it makes me really sick to my stomach while others are truely sensual. I just wish there was a way to see the latter without running into the prior because some image just really stick in your mind for a long time regardless if it was good or bad.
Post by udscoobychick on Jun 21, 2012 10:44:24 GMT -5
I am thoroughly disappointed that I missed GOZF's confession and the bulk of this thread!
I have no issues with porn, provided everyone is of age, consenting, and there are no animals, excessive violence, or human excrement involved. BF watches it on his own sometimes, and sometimes we watch it together. I enjoy watching it together, but I never watch it on my own--my imagination is much richer! We also enjoy reading erotica out loud to each other.
One XBF had some naked pics of me that I asked him to delete when we broke up--I assume he did, as I've never seen them anywhere, and he's a pretty good guy. BF has taken pictures and recorded us...we like to watch the videos sometimes, and the pictures are in with a slideshow of sexy images that we'll occasionally put up to get in the mood.
I worked either night shift or weekends for my entire marriage, so our sex life was less than ideal. My H used that as an excuse for watching a LOT of PPV porn at $12 per movie. I actually used to pay the cable bill and would pay for his porn if it was two movies or less per month (clearly there were MANY ISSUES in this marriage). I actually feel neutrally toward it generally. I would not watch it alone but used to watch it with my H on occasion. I also never had issues with going to strip clubs with my H, although the last time we went, I definitely was less comfortable there than I was when I was in my 20s. I did, however, have issues with the amount of porn my H was watching on his own.
I don't have a problem with porn. DH and I don't watch it together, but XH and I did a handful of times. Occasionally he'd get a PPV on Directv, for something like $5-6 a pop. Since I was paying the bills at the time, I told him that I wasn't going to pay that, and if he wanted to watch porn he could cart his happy ass down to the video rental store (obv this was a while ago, the internet hadn't really taken off yet). He kept getting the PPV, so I enabled the parental controls and didn't tell him the password.