I've been buying way too many clothing items in the last few weeks. I think my UPS man is sick of me and I think Boyfriend is too. Oops. The Phillip Lim for Target collection comes out on Sunday and I want it all.
I have done one full day in my thumb brace and I hate that brace so much. I took it off to GBCN this morning.
Post by captainmel on Sept 11, 2013 9:18:47 GMT -5
partiallysunny, what did you say to weird Facebook girl? Did you suggest prostitution instead?
gault, I'm so sorry to hear you're feeling bad. I want to fix it for you because I really understand the anxiety thing. Can you take the rest of the day off and go for a run and relax? Hugs.
I just recently made it to junior member. I feel inadequate, especially next to a full member.
Gault, I'm sorry about your anxiety. I wish I could help, I know how crappy that feels.
One of my best friends is going to be out of town for almost two weeks. We hang out at least once a week, usually more, so I'm kinda sad, but she should have fun on her trip so I'm excited for her.
I have to give a training related to trauma today. I'm not looking forward to it because I've had less than 24 hours to prepare and I still don't know how broad or narrow to make this first training.
partiallysunny, what did you say to weird Facebook girl? Did you suggest prostitution instead?
gault, I'm so sorry to hear you're feeling bad. I want to fix it for you because I really understand the anxiety thing. Can you take the rest of the day off and go for a run and relax? Hugs.
I said "I don't let people borrow money. Been burned too many times."
That's only half true. I only let people who I don't care if they ever pay me back borrow money. It's a short list.
She replied that she gets it, but she would never do that.
I think it's a lot of things. Not being able to lose this weight, feeling run down. Exercising less which makes me feel more run down and perpetuates that fun cycle. Probably not getting enough "me" time which helps to even me out.
Hormone surges this month and feeling so up and down. I broke down in front of bf this last weekend and pretty sure I threw him off big time. Talked with him about not having enough one-on-one down time where we just catch up and don't have anything planned. That I needed more of that to feel connected to him. And did it all while crying. lol. We had a date last night and it felt awkward. I hope we can move past it, but if he doesn't deal well with emotional stuff like this it doesn't bode well. I have my moments every once in awhile and you have to be okay with all of me, not just the fun parts.
Post by captainmel on Sept 11, 2013 10:00:00 GMT -5
Um. WTF PS? Is she giving you a reason that she needs money or is she just telling you she needs it? Tell her no but maybe ask her a few more questions so we are entertained.
This reminds me of a story from last week. The small fabric store I work at had someone buy $250 of fabric in May. She paid with a check and it bounced. We finally got a hold of her and she gave us a debit card to pay off the bounced check. The debit card kept declining and we were running it for like, $10. Finally we got the payment to go through last week and the lady called freaking out about paying all her bills and how we were just randomly taking money out of her account without telling her. Maybe you shouldn't have bought $250 of fabric if you were going to lose your home insurance!
Post by cuddlyevil on Sept 11, 2013 10:07:36 GMT -5
Hugs Gault.
I still haven't been able to set a time with the appraiser. This is getting ridiculous. I spoke to him and he was "working on his schedule so he could get down to me today.I'll call you back soon". I just called and left him a voicemail message.
I'm sending information over to a body shop to see about getting an estimate from them because this is getting to the point where I want to bust some heads.
Hugs gault. He probably just doesn't know what to do to make you feel better.
Thanks, mel. We'll see. I just have a feeling it turned him off. I also told him that without that one-on-one connectivity it almost feels like I'm one of his friends he has sex with and not a girlfriend. That may have been the hormones talking. eep.
Hugs gault. He probably just doesn't know what to do to make you feel better.
Thanks, mel. We'll see. I just have a feeling it turned him off. I also told him that without that one-on-one connectivity it almost feels like I'm one of his friends he has sex with and not a girlfriend. That may have been the hormones talking. eep.
I feel like this with H sometimes. I think most of the time it's my hormones making me feel lonely. And sometimes it's just we need to take time to do things together. It's hard to figure out which it is in the moment, though.
I feel like this has to be a drug thing. I can't imagine being that desperate for $20 without any resource to access it. Did you respond to the last message?
That's sort of the sad part (and why I won't be engaging her any more, Mel. Not even for our entertainment).
She only wanted $20.
Seriously? $20.
If I was going to contact someone that I briefly knew 8 years ago to beg for money, it'll be because the constable is on my doorstep serving me with a 10 day eviction notice from the bank. Not because I don't have enough scratch for lunch take out for the remainder of the week.
I feel like this has to be a drug thing. I can't imagine being that desperate for $20 without any resource to access it. Did you respond to the last message?