Good morning everyone! I guess this is a randoms post/thread, so jump on in.
I went to sleep around 10pm last night and I feel great today. I didn't even turn on the TV all night. This morning I'm trying out a pilates reformer class. I've been doing these relaxation pilates classes and they help with my pain and tension more than yoga. Hopefully I can start to strengthen my core and get things where they're supposed to be so I don't have as much pain.
Post by partiallysunny on Oct 23, 2013 8:21:32 GMT -5
No way! Good sleep and less pain deserves it own happy post.
My son got up with me this morning. He was so cute. He had brush his teeth, "wash" his face, put on lotion and makeup, and do his hair. He made me late, but it was nice seeing him.
LOL, she wants to do a mom/daughter costume (we're both mummies or witches).
That's so sweet of her, cuddly! You have to do this!
DS has finally decided that he wants to be superman for Halloween this year. So I'm going to pick up a costume for him at lunch today. No costume for me this year, but I'm not going trick or treating, so I'm good with that. Bring on the scary movies and popcorn!
Post by dixienormous on Oct 23, 2013 9:00:23 GMT -5
So far New Nanny is working out great. I came home to a happy kid who was playing with playdough (with NN!!), they spent time outside, she was really responsive when I asked her to do a couple of walking practice things with PF, she's excited to learn the speech app when I have it ready to go, AND she pleaded with me to hide my M&M stash.
I spent yesterday evening catching up on TV and programming the speech app. It was blissful.
I was going to hand out candy and watch movies with bf on Halloween, but I forgot I have choir that evening. So Halloween will consist of wearing my Leela costume at work and winning the best costume prize and the envy of all my peers.
Post by starrieskies on Oct 23, 2013 10:19:55 GMT -5
Guys I am sofucking pissed right now!!
I was late to work this morning, because DS and I had to have a talk. Apparently stbx has been talking to him over the weekends at his house. DS asked me this morning why I am divorcing his dad. He then proceeded to tell me that I did a very bad thing because "Daddy wanted to talk to you and you just divorced him." WTF???
I was late to work this morning, because DS and I had to have a talk. Apparently stbx has been talking to him over the weekends at his house. DS asked me this morning why I am divorcing his dad. He then proceeded to tell me that I did a very bad thing because "Daddy wanted to talk to you and you just divorced him." WTF???
FUCK HIM! I am enraged for you!
I don't know what the right thing for you do to here, but I'd be tearing STBX a new one!
I was late to work this morning, because DS and I had to have a talk. Apparently stbx has been talking to him over the weekends at his house. DS asked me this morning why I am divorcing his dad. He then proceeded to tell me that I did a very bad thing because "Daddy wanted to talk to you and you just divorced him." WTF???
MURDER!!!!! RAGE!!!!!!
Um, let me know if you need me to come kill him. I've got a shotgun.
Post by starrieskies on Oct 23, 2013 10:40:02 GMT -5
I am beyond enraged. I don't even know what to say. I told him that what he needs to remember is that mommy and daddy love HIM very much, and we want him to be happy.
Add to that the customer phone call I just got, and I'm going to have a super fantastic fucking day... GAH!!!
Post by captainmel on Oct 23, 2013 10:45:24 GMT -5
Have you talked to your lawyer about visitation? I vote you skip the rest of your work day and go visit your lawyer and end this shit. Full DV eval and no more DS time because this is un fucking acceptable.
That is a new low, using and manipulating your kid like that. I know he's doing it to get to you, but he's also hurting his son in the process. That's fucked up.
Have you talked to your lawyer about visitation? I vote you skip the rest of your work day and go visit your lawyer and end this shit. Full DV eval and no more DS time because this is un fucking acceptable.
*sits next to Mel*
I know you're trying to be nice about all of this, especially with delaying filing. But honestly, it's time to pull the trigger--shit like this is unacceptable and would make me inclined to render any agreement null and void.
I think you handled the whole thing incredibly well with your DS, BTW. In your shoes, I think I would have been so upset and angry, I would have just froze and not known what to say. You rock, lady.