I just hate November in general now. My dad died the day before Thanksgiving 3 years ago, and I had my D&C for my miscarriage 3 days after his funeral so yeah, November sucks for me.
I have a feeling TG will cause some tension in my house this year though. H's cousin invited us to his house (2 hours away) this year and H wants to go, but I still feel like I need to be with my mom. And I'm not really to a point where I feel like I can be social with other family yet since I still get really sad. So I don't know what we'll do yet.
Christmas got harder when H and I got together since all the grandparents (my mom, the il's, and the xil's) are all in town. Trying to get to everyone on either Christmas Eve or Christmas Day just sucks. This year xmil will have dd the weekend after so I'm thinking that we will just do Christmas with them that weekend instead of trying to work it in on the actual day. I think that will be easier. I'm going to get through TG before I figure the rest out.
There is someone on the S&B who wears pants that are TOO SHORT.
Yes! Why doesn't anyone say something to her? I'm tempted, but I'd be the non reg being a bitch about it. So there she is, everyday, with her short ass pants.
iamali, I am so sorry, who IRL can you talk to about this? Call them today.
I talk to my therapist about it. She says people don't believe me b/c I "look too put together" and am not like crying my eyes out when I'm trying to tell them. And, logically, I guess that makes sense b/c I have an extremely hard time being vunerable.
I see my psychitrist this week. I'll be talking to him as well.
There is someone on the S&B who wears pants that are TOO SHORT.
Yes! Why doesn't anyone say something to her? I'm tempted, but I'd be the non reg being a bitch about it. So there she is, everyday, with her short ass pants.
I spent entirely to long looking for this person. Maybe she is just tall and longer pants are hard to come by.
There is someone on the S&B who wears pants that are TOO SHORT.
Yes! Why doesn't anyone say something to her? I'm tempted, but I'd be the non reg being a bitch about it. So there she is, everyday, with her short ass pants.
I saw that today, again. I don't want to be the asshole though. Obviously no one else does either.
I must suck at fashion because almost everyone on S&B that posted a pants photo looks like their pants are too short. I could not tell you which one you all are talking about. =/
I love the holidays. We do a Thanksgiving potluck with DH's family and they are so much fun. They are the nicest people ever and we have a great time each year. DH always complains about not having enough Thanksgiving left overs (the man loves his Turkey) so I am doing a Second Thanksgiving at my house on Saturday for us and my cousin and his family. I like to cook and it will be fun to hang out and drink wine all day.
We always do Christmas at home with just us. Two days later we drive 6 hours to Grandma's and stay with her for 3 days and then head up to our friends house in the mountains for new years. We have been doing this since my son has been born and it is the best way to spend the holidays. I only have to tolerate my mom for 3 days and then it is off to drink lots of wine in the snow with my BFF. DH's parents only come down in the summer and send us money for Christmas to shop for ourselves. I love them.
Ever since FIL passed, I don't look forward to Christmas. He went all out for Christmas. Trains, homemade villages, lights, music, the whole nine. It just sucks because he isn't here anymore to do it for us. We try to just do it but it's not the same. Last year was terrible on all of us.
This year thanksgiving is 3 days after FILs birthday. I don't want to do anything. I want to sit around and mope. I hate not having him around.
I also feel horrible when we spend time with my parents. H doesn't have his dad. I feel terrible when we are with mine. It sucks.
I think I know who it is now (S&B)... but I just thought that this person likes her pants that way since nearly every single pants shots look the same. Like she looks for that style or something.
I'm in a choir where I'm very friendly with everyone, but have 3 main friends. I was on a committee with one of the friends. Her and a few of the other committee members went behind my back and pulled some shady stuff, which led to a disagree amongst everyone. This friend never came out and gave her opinion on the matter, although I can guess what it was. This was 2-3 months ago and she hasn't spoken to me since.
I didn't want to be self-centered and assume it was me, but last night her and another of the 3 main friends were talking and when I walked up she put her head down, then declined to come sit down with me.
All because we have a difference of opinion over something that isn't even personal, it's business. It's really hurting my feelings and I know it shouldn't because she obviously isn't worth it.
I'm really grumpy about having to travel cross country on Christmas day to visit my inlaws. It pisses me off that my FIL refuses to get on a plane, so my husband feels like we have to give in and go and see them. I'm plotting ways to ge out of going.
I must suck at fashion because almost everyone on S&B that posted a pants photo looks like their pants are too short. I could not tell you which one you all are talking about. =/
So far I have ruled out the ladies wearing dresses, those with boots, and a few others. That still leaves me with a few lol
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Post by thinklikeajellyfish on Nov 4, 2013 16:26:34 GMT -5
I love the holidays. I love Christmas music, buying gifts for everyone, and being around my family. The holidays were nice even when we moved across the country from our family because one of our friends would always take us in for Thanksgiving, and we had Christmas by ourselves with our family traditions. Now that I'm getting a divorce, the impending holidays are making me very sad. I asked if I can work all of the holidays. It is usually a lot of fun because it's either really busy and flies by, or we all sit around and eat yummy catered food that the owner buys, talk, and enjoy each others company. Anytime that I can be NOT at the house with stbxh is great.
Yes, yes, the too short pants! Please, please can someone do something about this? An intervention? Because they're like, too short by A LOT.
And I can't stand the circle jerk that goes on in those OOTD posts. Nice scarf! Great color! Pretty necklace! Thanks! Thank you! On and on and on.
Oh god the compliments are INSANE over there. And the pattern mixing its just too much! Lol I guess I shouldn't say anything I can't even style my leggings or jeggings lol