Post by starrieskies on Nov 7, 2013 12:17:44 GMT -5
Well I would but my sister has some medical issues (mostly related to obesity) that make it hard for her to sleep and I don't want to be inconsiderate to that. If she was more capable of getting up and chasing after him I wouldn't feel so bad... I'm enabling again aren't I?
Post by starrieskies on Nov 7, 2013 12:24:34 GMT -5
We're kind of in the middle of nowhere. I'm sure there's something in town but I don't know where anything is around here... I haven't left the house since I got here on Tuesday. I think I have some cabin fever. I triedvto get DS ti go for a walk with me yesterday but he didn't want to.
Post by starrieskies on Nov 7, 2013 12:29:04 GMT -5
And I'm feeling guilty because my boss has been texting me and she's having a really hard time. I'm gone, her husband is sick, and the office assistant was hospitalized with a kidney infection. So she's alone and doing 4 people's jobs... meanwhile I'm sitting on a couch in my pjs 600 miles away.
Yes. We're staying at my sisters. My brother also lives here, but heaven insufferable ass who snapped me last night at my birthday dinner so I don't feel like staying with him even though his house is bigger.
Today I'm getting my hair cut and my niece is taking me thrift shopping while my sister watches DS. .si I'm pretty excited about that.
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Your brother snapped at you?
At first I read that as he slapped you, and I was beginning to go into a homicidal rage.
Yes. We're staying at my sisters. My brother also lives here, but heaven insufferable ass who snapped me last night at my birthday dinner so I don't feel like staying with him even though his house is bigger.
Today I'm getting my hair cut and my niece is taking me thrift shopping while my sister watches DS. .si I'm pretty excited about that.
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Your brother snapped at you?
At first I read that as he slapped you, and I was beginning to go into a homicidal rage.
Yeah. He is the same brother who got married and told everyone by text.
Post by partiallysunny on Nov 7, 2013 15:03:50 GMT -5
Oh doglove. This is just a classic example of how different people are. I don't think she will ever be able to accept your parents as they are, so maybe cutting them out would have been good... If she truly meant it. Really, she wanted the attention it would bring, and even then that didn't make her happy.
How sad.
Now that you've refreshed my memory, I remember you talking about her before.
Post by partiallysunny on Nov 7, 2013 16:00:44 GMT -5
starrieskies tell me you called him out and he got mad!
doglove my brother is sort of like that. He thinks I somehow had a wonderful childhood compared to him. That only he got the short end of the stick. Yes, he got in more trouble and got more punishment, but that's because he put himself in that position. He would rather have negative attention then no attention, and he didn't see how that equated to him getting more discipline.
Post by starrieskies on Nov 7, 2013 16:09:00 GMT -5
No it was much less dramatic. I made some random comment (not even about him) and he snapped. I just gave him a death stare and told him to not talk to me like that and walked away. He apologized, Bu he's still an ass.
Hi, I don't post much at all, I am stuck between what boards to be in. I see trouble in paradise and that right now is where I am at. Thought I would come to a randoms, as this week really does suck for my family and my struggling marriage.
My brother is losing his battle with brain cancer, and we don't think he will be around for more than a month. I am devastated, as he is the only family connection other than my mom I have left ( of bio family). I am crying sobbing and my husband is sitting on the couch watching tv, and listening to me sob.
I am curious if anyone's husband would console them without having to be asked, as my husband doesn't seem to get that I am dying inside and is more interested about a fucking murder show.
We have been in therapy on and off and at this point the money isn't there for this expense. It will continue though when money gets better. Won't interupt anymore, but thought I needed to get this out to somewhere or I am going to explode. Thanks and I will back out of room. Thanks for reading and sorry this is so long from a semi lurker who doesn't know where she belongs.