Can We Do Another This Week Blows Thread?

[partiallysunny]

Gah! Rejected for sex again last night! A mild argument insured, in which I have no idea who's feelings are valid.

And H was pissy again yesterday. He makes the biggest fucking deals about nothing.

Also, today is the anniversary of my grandmas death, and I'm always a mess on that day.

This week can not be over fast enough.

And, also. I'm doing something at work, something I usually love, but nothing is working out. I'm losing my touch!

[cuddlyevil]

Yes we can.

I'm sorry your week is turning out to be super crappy.

I had to break up three fights this morning. Then MIL was all "I heard a story on the news about a 19 year-old girl who was so mad at her 18 year-old brother that she ran him over with her car--she killed him. We have to curb this stuff now.". I was not equipped for that comment today.

[partiallysunny]

WTF to your MIL!

[cuddlyevil]

She is an axious person, so she hears stuff and goes from 0-60 on the worry wort scale. But yeah, DD scratching DS to "get him back" after he pulled her hair is not on the same level as a sister running her brother over with her car.

[partiallysunny]

Ah, yeah. Not the same caliber. I don't really like your MIL.

[Deleted]

Why is he rejecting you?

I was thinking about how much this week sucks when I was trying to get out of bed this morning. Every morning has been horrible. I just want to keep sleeping and I've been getting like 9 hours of sleep every night.

[cuddlyevil]

She's not a bad person at all, just a worrier to the extreme. Usually we just nod and say "uh...okay". I wasn't ready for this one, though I should have been after last week's "The flu is already killing kids!" freak out.

[margarita]

Nov 7, 2013 9:00:49 GMT -5 cuddlyevil said:

Yes we can.

I'm sorry your week is turning out to be super crappy.

I had to break up three fights this morning. Then MIL was all "I heard a story on the news about a 19 year-old girl who was so mad at her 18 year-old brother that she ran him over with her car--she killed him. We have to curb this stuff now.". I was not equipped for that comment today.

WHAT?


This week really does blow, and for me it's not any one thing, it's just a general feeling I'm having. wompwomp

[partiallysunny]

Nov 7, 2013 9:30:45 GMT -5 doglove said:

Why is he rejecting you?

I was thinking about how much this week sucks when I was trying to get out of bed this morning. Every morning has been horrible. I just want to keep sleeping and I've been getting like 9 hours of sleep every night.

He says it's stress and "you know this happens sometimes".

Probably related to him going in r interviews (he has another one on Saturday).

Yeah, it just happened when we moved. A month ago. And we didn't have sex for a month.

I try to be understanding, but I'm opposite. When I'm stressed/can't sleep/want to relax I want to have sex!

I think he needs to "take one for the team" instead of just not caring how I feel.

[dixienormous]

PF threw up 3 times within 12 hours. But it was within an hour of a tube feed so I don't know if it's a stomach bug or a g-tube issue. No fever so I'm going to have the nanny keep an eye on her. But i have 3 outfits and 2 couch cushions to wash tonight.

I'm super weepy today and I don't know why. I was walking through the train station this morning and there was a Disney on Ice "exhibit" going on and all of a sudden i started crying. WTF emotions?!

I'm so done with this week.

[partiallysunny]

::hugs:: dixienormous. I hope PF doesn't have a bug

[cuddlyevil]

{{{Dixie}}}

MIL just called me, school called her and asked her to pick up DD--her throat is red and sore.

[Muddled]

PS, both of your feelings are valid. Compromise sucks sometimes.

That being said, a month is too long. Let him know exactly how this makes you feel, but try to be nice about it.


I'm sorry everyone is having such a shitty week. It's almost over!!

Did I tell you guys that both Brad and I got all teary at the marathon last weekend? omg.


tiramisu, Paula's Choice is apparently on sale at dermstore

[partiallysunny]

Nov 7, 2013 10:00:59 GMT -5 cuddlyevil said:

{{{Dixie}}}

MIL just called me, school called her and asked her to pick up DD--her throat is red and sore.

ugh. You don't need this right now

[cuddlyevil]

I know, but I'd rather her be out of school if she's getting really sick (DD's very much a "play through the pain" kind of kid, so when she complains it must be pretty bad). This plays into MIL's wheelhouse because she is a nuturer, she is excellent when the kids are sick and they do what she asks (esp. when it comes to "you need to rest--get in bed").

[partiallysunny]

Muddled Please find me a compromise! I've told him "we can't go a month. I only ask for once a week."

He says okay, but then he gets in these ruts and doesn't give a shit.

He knows how it makes me feel. I told him again for the millionth time last night. All he says is "I wish you wouldn't feel that way. It doesn't have anything to do with you."

[Muddled]

Hmmm... I'm going to need you two to come in for a session. Tomorrow at 2?


Let's talk more about this later. I have to run now and I'll be away most of the day. In the meantime, big hugs. This is really frustrating.

[partiallysunny]

Lol Muddled it's okay.

I know I just have to talk it out with him. Again. Blah.

[tiramisu]

Hugs to everyone, especially partiallysunny and dixienormous

Muddled thank you for letting me know, I'll have to check it out. I recently started trying PC's vitamin C booster and I think I like it.

My "this week sucks" isn't about me, it's about my boss. She's been having head pain since Monday, went to urgent care, they ran tests and gave her vicodin, and she went to her doctor yesterday. Apparently the pain is getting worse. She's finally having a scan today. We're all worried she had a stroke or something.

I'm starting up a collection to buy spa gift certificates for my boss and for her administrative assistant, who's been super busy with prepping for a site review next week and has been at work REALLY late for weeks.

[Muddled]

PS, I get the feeling that the giving and taking in your relationship isn't exactly equal.

And now I really am taking off.

[partiallysunny]

Nov 7, 2013 10:18:05 GMT -5 Muddled said:

PS, I get the feeling that the giving and taking in your relationship isn't exactly equal.

And now I really am taking off.

I'm getting that same feeling.

[gault]

Nov 7, 2013 10:19:27 GMT -5 partiallysunny said:

Nov 7, 2013 10:18:05 GMT -5 Muddled said:

PS, I get the feeling that the giving and taking in your relationship isn't exactly equal.

And now I really am taking off.

I'm getting that same feeling.

:-(

[partiallysunny]

Nov 7, 2013 10:43:22 GMT -5 gault said:

Nov 7, 2013 10:19:27 GMT -5 partiallysunny said:

I'm getting that same feeling.

why are you crying? Don't cry

[gault]

Sometimes the sad face is replaced by the crying face. :-( hmm. Pretend it's sad for you. Rejection sucks and so does sex once a month.

[partiallysunny]

Nov 7, 2013 11:02:42 GMT -5 gault said:

Sometimes the sad face is replaced by the crying face. hmm. Pretend it's sad for you. Rejection sucks and so does sex once a month.

Well, then okay. I'll take a pity party.

[cuddlyevil]

Why am I getting banner ads for Depends? WHY? I don't need to know that Tony Siragusa wears them.

[partiallysunny]

I've been chatting with H. I feel a bit better, but still sad.

[starrieskies]

I'm feeling very disconnected. I know that this is the idea of vacation, but it's a very unfamiliar feeling. The kids have all gone to school and DS and I are the only ones awake. He's a morning person and it's hard to keep him quiet so he doesn't wake up everyone else.

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[partiallysunny]

starrieskies

Are you at you sisters?

[starrieskies]

Yes. We're staying at my sisters. My brother also lives here, but heaven insufferable ass who snapped me last night at my birthday dinner so I don't feel like staying with him even though his house is bigger.

Today I'm getting my hair cut and my niece is taking me thrift shopping while my sister watches DS. .si I'm pretty excited about that.

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