You ARE cared for and loved. This woman is trapped with your douchenozzle of an ex FOREVER. You got out, and you are a better, stronger, MORE LOVED woman because of it.
I'm so sorry! That is a load of emotions to work through. Please be extra kind to yourself, and take care of you. We love you lots! Do you have a friend that can come sit with you?
I sent you a message, you can call me if you need to talk. I'll be up late tonight.
He's a fuckhead. Please don't feel alone and uncared for! THAT IS NOT TRUE! We love you, bon. I know it hurts like hell right now, but this is all for the best. He's a dishonest a-hole.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Please don't feel that way. You know you're in a better place now and how many people love and care about you. Your ex is a first-class asshole. Don't waste your emotions on him.
I'm so sorry, bonquiqui. You are cared for very much.
I have no idea if my ex has kids or kids on the way (I suspect he does or will soon as he's already remarried.)
You have every right to feel hurt. Every right.
And if it makes you feel any better, this probably won't work out and he will be broke and miz paying for two kids. And his life will be even more complicated juggling all of that.
Meanwhile, you will be healed and so long gone from all of this that you will laugh and laugh.
Post by allaboutme on Nov 10, 2013 23:16:52 GMT -5
I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. I too want you to know you are well loved here, I will add to the others that said you are much better off to be done with him, and sadly his new chickie is stuck with him and all his crap... ((Hugs))
You know what else? (yes, I am still posting, lol)
I tend to think the guy is delayed in getting hit with a ton bricks.
On some psychic level, I JUST KNOW that my ex and his warp-speed moving on was a band-aid.
You are getting the tears and anguish out now, not pushing the poison down only to bubble up later.
You are going to be okay. It hurts and it hurts now, but you will get through this and move on to your own bliss.
It's such a kick in the teeth to give so much time to something. I get it. Some really youthful, pretty-ass years. But you have to believe me when I say you are cared for and not fucked in all of this. If anything, he is.
You will be better for it. Hang in there, bonquiqui. You just have to hold on for now.