I go back and forth to be honest. I really do not feel that we are done with 2, but money is certainly an issue and I do not want to take away from the 2 awesome kiddos I have right now. If we decide that we can swing a third and not screw over the first two, then sure.
My ute is in limbo, but we'll probably end up at 2?
Also, I fucking HATE that I will be 35 in May, nooooooooooooooooooooo
I would love 3, but adding a second child is not turning out well and frankly, I don't think I want to deal with TTC again after this time.
Have you had major clomid side effects? PS: I've been thinking of you, sending you happy TTC vibes Clomid really did the trick for us, and I hope it brings you baby #2 as well (heart)
I go between being done at one and wanting a second. H wants a second, but due to the cost if child care and uncertainty of G's development and his needs, there's a good chance we are done.
I would love 3, but adding a second child is not turning out well and frankly, I don't think I want to deal with TTC again after this time.
Have you had major clomid side effects? PS: I've been thinking of you, sending you happy TTC vibes    Clomid really did the trick for us, and I hope it brings you baby #2 as well (heart)
No side effects really, just insanely emotional. Haha. And thanks, I really appreciate it!! Kinda bummed that this month might not work because the stomach flu hit our house right when I'm ovulating. . We'll see!!
Emerson Kate, born 38w5d on 4/6/12 at 6:02 p.m., 5 lbs 13 oz and 18 3/4 inches. Lucas Matthew, born 39w5d on 4/11/14 at 8:20 a.m., 7 lbs 4 oz and 20 inches.
Two makes the most sense, financially and logistically.
I still think I want 3 but I am not sure we will have 3. I feel like if I were to have 3 I want to just have the same 2 year spacing. But we can't afford three in daycare at the same time. So we'd have to wait longer or I would have to stay at home (noooooo)
My husband loves kids and would like as many as I'm willing to birth, he doesn't worry about stuff like I do. He's just all "it will be cool, everything will work out, kids are great".
In an ideal world I'd like 4, but will likely be stopping at 3.
This. I have my two boys and I would love to have two girls as well...of course I would be just as happy with another boy though. We will definitely be stopping at 3 if the next one is a boy. 4 boys just sounds crazy!!
We want two, but have been having some issues TTC this time. I'm going to see a RE in a few weeks, and I'm hoping things go well from there. But, I'm thinking if I can only have 1 I would be happy with that too.
I want 4 because I hate the unevenness of 3. And I like the excitement of pregnancy and having babies. And I want another boy!
But the logistics of it, financially and so on aren't there. Plus, I need a break for awhile and then I would have three babies close in age and 1 straggler.... Or I'd have twins again and have FIVE and it would be uneven, yet again.