I honestly go back and forth. I get a bit sad knowing that my PG and newborn days are behind me, but I know that we are making the best decision for our family.
Patrick is not one and done, so he'll have to convince me otherwise. I've told him if he wants another it has to be sooner, not later, because I need to go back to work, for my sanity.
Well - I always wanted three, and my H wanted 2. We lost Austin, and are lucky enough to have Blake. We are currently TTC with a HUGE fear about how that pregnancy will turn out, but we both agree that if I get pregnant, it will be our last pregnancy - whether we end up with a healthy baby, or if we lose him/her...so I voted 3 - Austin, Blake, and hopefully a new one soon.
4... but the 4th will have to be more than 2 years apart from the 3rd. Being pregnant 3 times in the last 5 years is a lot! I don't think I could take 4 times within 7 years.
I think I want three...but we go back and forth so much on whether that is the best choice for our existing family. Our "deadline" for a decision is the end of this year--I desperately want to be done with pregnancy/newborns. I think once Theo is about 1.5 years old, we will have a decent idea of whether we want to add one more.
I don't know. Lol. I feel like I say that a lot in posts right now. I want Thad to have siblings. I want to.watch another child or.Two grow. I never ever ever want to be have a baby in my house again. And I don't know that I want to stop my life again.
Before I had K I always wanted 1 kid but assumed we would have 2. After we had K I changed my tune and wanted 3. So I think we will have 3 if the stars align but I know I will have 2.