Mila party update re: ILs

[kdrake8]

Her party is this weekend.

We were down at ILs tonight. I asked them just so we'd have an idea how long they plan on staying at milas party on sat.

MIL said, oh we need to decide if we are going at all. Poor DH looked shocked. He said, you aren't coming?

Mil said well we think we want to go to the church AND reception for BIL's friend sooooo we would just skip the party.



Meanwhile. My dad is not even supposed to be around anyone who could be sick. He's supposed to be resting. He still can't walk across a room without getting exhausted (this is normal I guess bc he was septic. It could take up to a year for him to regain full strength they told him). He is insisting he won't miss his granddaughter's party. We are making special plans to minimize his risk so he can still attend.

And my damn ILs can't be bothered to miss PART of a wedding of their SONS friend. Not even their close friend. Their sons.

[Deleted]

These people are bizarre.

[mala]

Jerks

[honeybee503]

That is ridiculous. I'm sorry they're being so unreasonable

[imimahoney]

OMG, they suck so much. I'm so sorry.

[irishsara]

Ridiculous

[thedahliharpa]

I'm sorry @kdrake. Maybe we can start a compound for these type of people.
I hope your Dad feels ok at the party and its so sweet he wants to be there despite his condition.

[jamaga2583]

Wow. They really suck. I'm sorry

[spaghetticat]

I'm sorry they are so terrible

[ruby412]

Eff them. I have no tolerance for that kind of thing. I'm so sorry they don't have their priorities straight.

[Deleted]

Butt heads. I wouldn't want them there at this point.


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[charlielove]

I'm sorry.

[unclejesse]

Every time I see an update about this I get ragey.

[Beener]

Ugh. Your ILs suck.

[teamhayes]

So messed up

My fil booked a trip the weekend of k bday and his new grand child's due date

Who does that

Do people ever think if others before themselves

So sorry drake

[kdrake8]

I had to text mil yesterday and suggest we get their family together to have cake for mila. I had to initiate this discussion.




Meanwhile over the summer they missed BIL's gf's daughters party (it was a new relationship and we got invited last minute) and it was a huge deal. We missed it too bc my BFF's sons party was the same day. They laid into us how we shouldn't miss her party, we should skip my BFF's. We refused to skip it.

They threw the daughter a party at their house where we all had to come and eat cake and bring her presents.

They however did not even think of doing this for their OWN granddaughter. Their first grandchild.

[carawestt]

I say screw 'em!

[creamsiclechica]

Very strong distaste for these people and their shenanigans.

[bean47]

They make me so mad on your behalf.

[jalapenopeach]

How ridiculous. I would probably not invite them to any future birthdays, but I tend to be a grudge holder. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this!

[laurensmomma]

Yes, but think about how awesome it will be for them to watch their son be in the wedding party....

Lol, yeah that was sarcasm. Lame in their part.

[browneyedhunni85]

They sound lovely. So sorry you have to deal with this crap.

[Faevantastic]

Bastards!

[kdrake8]

Mar 30, 2014 19:43:01 GMT -5 jalapenopeach said:

How ridiculous. I would probably not invite them to any future birthdays, but I tend to be a grudge holder. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this!

I am one too. Seriously I would not invite them. I feel bad for DH though. It's sad to me to see him so hurt right now.

[helicase]

That's such bullshit. I'm sorry.

[silverjm]

That's really sad. I feel awful for your H, that his parents are so obviously favoring his brother.

[fusion]

absolutely ludicrous. I'm sorry.

[katfco]

Ugh, I'm sorry, especially that they're hurting your H like that.

[joyhart02]

Screw them, the party will be better without them. I feel bad for Dh though. He hopefully will see their true colors soon.

[The Foozzler]

Ugh. That is so crappy.