I'm pissed at my XH because of his current FB cover photo....and I shouldn't be....and I shouldn't have looked, but it's gotten under my skin and I can't shake it
I'm pissed at my XH because of his current FB cover photo....and I shouldn't be....and I shouldn't have looked, but it's gotten under my skin and I can't shake it
Post by bullygirl979 on Jul 17, 2012 15:39:17 GMT -5
Oh, other confession. I am having a really hard time with this break up (duh) so not only am I seeing a therapist but I scheduled face time with my pastor at church. I feel like a therapy addict.
I'm pissed at my XH because of his current FB cover photo....and I shouldn't be....and I shouldn't have looked, but it's gotten under my skin and I can't shake it
Post by blackkitty on Jul 17, 2012 15:41:22 GMT -5
My confession is that I know I need to break up with LB and I'm only digging myself in a deeper hole by the day with him... but I also keep saying, "I'll do it after this" or "I'll do it after that" or "I'm going to wait and see if he shaves his beard". I need to be flamed for this.
Oh, other confession. I am having a really hard time with this break up (duh) so not only am I seeing a therapist but I scheduled face time with my pastor at church. I feel like a therapy addict.
lol @ therapy addict.
Whatever you need to get yourself through it, man. If seeing a pastor is going to help you then do it up!
My confession is that I know I need to break up with LB and I'm only digging myself in a deeper hole by the day with him... but I also keep saying, "I'll do it after this" or "I'll do it after that" or "I'm going to wait and see if he shaves his beard". I need to be flamed for this.
I'm pissed at my XH because of his current FB cover photo....and I shouldn't be....and I shouldn't have looked, but it's gotten under my skin and I can't shake it
What's the picture of?
It's a picture of a t-shirt that reads "Marriages don't fail. Wives fail."
I want to punch him in the face. He cheated on both of his wives...I own my part in the failure of our marriage.....fuck you, buddy.
My confession is that I know I need to break up with LB and I'm only digging myself in a deeper hole by the day with him... but I also keep saying, "I'll do it after this" or "I'll do it after that" or "I'm going to wait and see if he shaves his beard". I need to be flamed for this.
Oh, sister!!! I will flame you....which will also flame me. Okay. BIG confession: after I broke it off with Z I kind of continued to hang out with him and said the same thing: "Oh I know this won't work but I will just hang out with him this weekend." Or "Oh, I will just see him tonight and will break up with him for real tomorrow." and you know what?? He ended up continuing to be SUCH a DOUCHE that this past weekend I cried the entire damn weekend. I finally said to myself: "self, WTF are you doing??? You know that this IS NOT who you want to be with! Get some self respect and end this shit!" and I did. While it sucks, is sucks FAR less than dragging this BS out for months. END IT. NOW.
My confession is that I know I need to break up with LB and I'm only digging myself in a deeper hole by the day with him... but I also keep saying, "I'll do it after this" or "I'll do it after that" or "I'm going to wait and see if he shaves his beard". I need to be flamed for this.
Seriously. I've been a little worried for you BK, based on previous threads. I think you really need to ask yourself WHY you would allow yourself to be with someone who is this destructive (figuratively, not literally, although their was the bar punch...).
It's a picture of a t-shirt that reads "Marriages don't fail. Wives fail."
I want to punch him in the face. He cheated on both of his wives...I own my part in the failure of our marriage.....fuck you, buddy.
FUCK THAT I would be pissed too! And I would not be able to keep my mouth shut about it. Because I am immature. Or whatever. What a dick hole. I would post right on his damn wall.
My confession is that I know I need to break up with LB and I'm only digging myself in a deeper hole by the day with him... but I also keep saying, "I'll do it after this" or "I'll do it after that" or "I'm going to wait and see if he shaves his beard". I need to be flamed for this.
LOL Explain shaving the beard
He has this really white trashy beard. It's like a goatee and then it's maybe 4 inches longer than a "normal" goatee. I hate it. I've asked him to shave it for a few different reasons. He said he's thinking about it. Then I told him yesterday that I was sorry for asking him to shave it, and that he should do what he wants and I don't want to be "that girl" that tries to change someone. And my stupid self thinks that my reverse psychology is going to work and tonight when I see him it will be cut.
My confession is that I know I need to break up with LB and I'm only digging myself in a deeper hole by the day with him... but I also keep saying, "I'll do it after this" or "I'll do it after that" or "I'm going to wait and see if he shaves his beard". I need to be flamed for this.
Seriously. I've been a little worried for you BK, based on previous threads. I think you really need to ask yourself WHY you would allow yourself to be with someone who is this destructive (figuratively, not literally, although their was the bar punch...).
Thanks for your concern... and I know why I'm with him. I mean it was originally just a friends thing, but he's fun to be with and our "relationship" is "easy" because I don't care what he thinks. I can be myself b/c he accepts me no matter what.
My confession is that I know I need to break up with LB and I'm only digging myself in a deeper hole by the day with him... but I also keep saying, "I'll do it after this" or "I'll do it after that" or "I'm going to wait and see if he shaves his beard". I need to be flamed for this.
I know what you mean dude. It's dumb as fuck, don't get me wrong. But I did the same exact thing.
FUCKING BREAK UP WITH HIM! Do you really want to be on the same level as me? No BK, you don't.
It's a picture of a t-shirt that reads "Marriages don't fail. Wives fail."
I want to punch him in the face. He cheated on both of his wives...I own my part in the failure of our marriage.....fuck you, buddy.
He definitely needs and education. Yet I can't help but feel this is helpful because he's publicly advertising what a douche he is and there by sparing women from wasting time and energy with him.
My confession is that I know I need to break up with LB and I'm only digging myself in a deeper hole by the day with him... but I also keep saying, "I'll do it after this" or "I'll do it after that" or "I'm going to wait and see if he shaves his beard". I need to be flamed for this.
Oh, sister!!! I will flame you....which will also flame me. Okay. BIG confession: after I broke it off with Z I kind of continued to hang out with him and said the same thing: "Oh I know this won't work but I will just hang out with him this weekend." Or "Oh, I will just see him tonight and will break up with him for real tomorrow." and you know what?? He ended up continuing to be SUCH a DOUCHE that this past weekend I cried the entire damn weekend. I finally said to myself: "self, WTF are you doing??? You know that this IS NOT who you want to be with! Get some self respect and end this shit!" and I did. While it sucks, is sucks FAR less than dragging this BS out for months. END IT. NOW.
I hear you... and I leave for Vegas and the day I get back my son is back from spending the summer with his dad. So other than Vegas I really have less than a week of time to myself and I can "waste it" just having fun with him or I can actually spend time on myself. I think at this point it's also like a distraction from being alone.
Post by missbetty1 on Jul 17, 2012 15:54:46 GMT -5
Okay here we go...You guys know how gung-ho I was on waiting to sleep with Mars...getting to know him better, getting our STD tests back, birth control, etc. Well we went out to dinner the evening before I left for Miami. After dinner I told him I wanted to make out but NOT have sex he said "okay". I go to his house for the first time..before I know it I'm butt naked in his bed screaming his name What the hell happened to my will power!!! Oh and the story isn't over!!! The condom got stuck up in me!!!! WTF!Tthat has Never happened to me before! I freaked out SO bad! I started putting my clothes back on and he was like "what are you doing you can't leave the condom in you?!"..I just couldn't take it out so he calmed me down and he took it out I should of known better because only something like this would have happened to me since I was trying to be SO in control of everything! I ended up having to run to the drug store Friday morning to buy Plan B...uugh. And now I am the horniest I've been in years...after I got back yesterday we had more sex AND I want more today! I feel like I'm losing control because we still haven't taken our tests yet...we talked out it and told each other the last time we were tested...I don't see my GYN until Friday to get BC and get tested...it's going to feel like freakin forever when we do it again since I'm "trying" to hold off until we get our tests results back and I get on BC! Wooo got that off my chest...I feel better now