Wine and boots sounds like a good plan ( and a band name)
No, because I don't keep alcohol in the house thanks to my alcoholic H. I am tense. My life is crumbling around me and I'm stressed the fuck out between my H relapsing and work.
Boo. I'm sorry, I went through a phase where H didn't want alcohol in the house and it was hard. Yoga classes? Those might help with the stress?
Could you leave DD with your parents or someone and get a hotel room for a night? Order room service and watch whatever TV/movies you want and just rest? Groupon and Living Social often have local hotel deals.
I like the idea of an overnight to yourself. Even if it's at home, could you take your kids somewhere and have the whole house to yourself? I love those kind of nights.
malibu, I'm really sorry rehab didn't work out for your H. Are you making plans to leave him now? Just asking because I thought that was the gist of what you told him before he went into rehab.
I have been where you are. I understand how hurtful it can be, and how angry (rightly so!) it can make you. Please definitely use this $ to take care of yourself.
Post by cuddlyevil on Sept 18, 2014 13:05:00 GMT -5
For me? I'd get my hair did and have a nice dinner out.
If you can't think of something to spend it on, hang on to it. You know it is inevitable that as soon as you use it you'll come across something and be all "Damn...I really want that.".
Cole Haan kitten heels. I've had my finger on the trigger all week, but keep holding back on ordering them. I could really use them, but don't need them.
Thanks guys/ I had to step away for a few days. Seriously, I'm melting down. The day after this post, my fucking MIL called me AT WORK to tell me that they'd been over to my house and she chastised me on how messy it was. No shit. I've been telling your god damn, jobless, alcoholic son to get off his ass and pick up his mess for two months. I'm so. so. so. at the end of my rope, as someone else pointed out. My week was hell, both at work and at home. Sorry if I flew off the handle a bit. I can't handle much right now, obviously.