Post by zeewifeandmama on Oct 22, 2014 17:34:27 GMT -5
Yep, I also sing to them. I usually just turned on my music and sang to them, as they got older I pointed out things ( trucks, police car, bus, blue car etc.) and talked to them as a means of entertainment for them and to keep them quiet/happy. Now they have TV/music/story requests but my dd will ask to talk about every third time we're in the car or so.
Post by imojoebunny on Oct 22, 2014 17:39:15 GMT -5
No. I am driving. Now that they can talk, I frequently tell them that I need to focus on driving to keep them safe, since they will ask 600 question and I find it distracting.
Yes, I felt like I was narrating my own life. I talked to dd1 constantly because she was so damn fussy that I was sheets trying to stay ahead of her and keep her calm/distracted.
Post by mandapanda18 on Oct 22, 2014 17:49:00 GMT -5
Yes and I have since the hospital ride home. I ask him about his day (if we are on our way home from daycare) even though he dosen't know how to respond. I sing to him on longer trips, spell his name, count in english/spanish (he is at a full immersion spanish speaking daycare), point things out as we pass bye.
I don't recall talking to them as babies. However, this is a reason why I'm glad to have a second kid. They talk to each other while I drive and blissfully tune them out with the radio. Now any time I have just one kid in the car I'm surprised by how much they want to talk and have me respond. STFU, kid and let me rock out to the radio.*
*Obviously I don't really mean that. I more than enjoy all our conversations. Maybe.
Not really. She usually doesn't respond so then I'm not even sure she's awake but turns out she is. She usually only has 2 volumes in the car - 1) silence while tolerating the seat and maybe playing with/chewing on a toy and 2) screaming when she realizes there is no one back there with her and she is DONE being in the car seat. Talk or singing to her doesn't help us at all when she gets to #2.
I pretty much have always talked nonstop to DD. This is probably when you all start feeling sorry for her, but I'm a talker by nature so having someone to talk to who couldn't tell me to stop was great! When she was not yet speaking I would just sing songs or narrate what we were doing and seeing in the car. Now that she can talk we have constant conversations. She learned how to spell her name and a few other words and names from the version of BINGO we sing in the car every morning!
Before verbal...not unless they were crying/fussing. I miss those days...my kids won't ever shut up now. Lol
I'm pretty much here. I might sing every now and then, but rarely. Now at 2.5, she is VERY vocal all the time, requests music to be turned up or down, etc. So we talk a lot now.
Post by teatimefor2 on Oct 22, 2014 19:41:42 GMT -5
It depends. But sometimes. If it's after preschool, I'll ask him about his day, etc. were together all day, the car is my break. DS always brings books in the car and likes to 'read'.
Gawd, all the time. DD1 went through a phase when she would scream "DONT STOP TALKING" if I didn't respond. That may have been when our family gained a Frozen soundtrack. I drive a lot. I prefer to zone. My kids do not.