I'm going to try to do a spending freeze for the month of November. I really need to save for christmas.
Also, last week at therapy, I set a goal to lose 30 lbs in 6 months. Yesterday I weighed myself and lost 1.5lbs of which I am super happy! I'm also getting into the habit of eating breakfast and packing salads for lunch. I ate breakfast everyday last week and I think that helped with my energy levels.
I really need to start putting my health first and taking better care of myself.
I was telling my friend last night how much more energy I have and how much better I feel on my nutrition program. She's been super skeptical the entire time I've been doing it saying I don't need to lose weight (I'm not trying to at all) and just not really thinking he program was legit. Last night she was telling me how poor her energy is and how she wants to lose 5 lbs. I was talking to her about it again and she said "that's it I want it". It's pretty crazy but I know she'll love it!
P had his 6th good day in a row. I'm so relieved!
I was texting with a guy sunday and he invited me to go to s dinner with him Sunday night. I didn't hear a word from him yesterday so I thought that was really odd. No word from the marine either. I wasn't feeling it on our date and I think he could tell. I'm honestly fine if I never hear from him again :/
I've been on the phone with our payroll company for 22 minutes. I'm trying to create a simple withholding report and I finally gave up because it's pulling every darn code in the system. I just want it to pull 1 code from the system. The reporting specialist at our payroll company create the report and now she's having to go fix it because it pulled records on every darn code in the system. The only good thing: at least she's having the same problem that I've had. But seriously, it shouldn't be this challenging to create a stupid custom report.
Tonight starts bowling league. I'm looking forward to having something to do on Tuesdays again for the next 16 weeks. I'm hoping my team does well because, honestly, I want to win this year!
Post by hungrycaterpillar on Oct 28, 2014 8:10:20 GMT -5
I slept in after a great relaxing evening last night. The guy I'm seeing right now makes me happy beyond measure. He treats me so well. I am pretty smitten with him. I spent so long being treated poorlg by my ex. I didn't know life could be like this.
I'm wearing heels from the Mizrahi Target collection. I am getting a thousand compliments on them, but these shoes have been in the back of the closet at least 6-10 years. :\
I've been ghosted, which is a bummer. I really liked the guy. And I think I know WHY I was ghosted, but that's probably just the crazy talking.
Oh forgot to mention that we file the paperwork in my old county today so if the emergency order goes through xh will be notified within the next few days. I'm glad we've moved already because he doesn't know our address. I'm also glad my family is coming this weekend.
I got my notice of hearing for the divorce...it's next week! The court had said we'd get a notice 2 weeks in advance, so now I have to figure out if I can even get out to FL on such short notice.
Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Oct 28, 2014 9:32:39 GMT -5
Good morning! My app has been a nightmare lately.
I didn't find the shoes I wanted yesterday. I have a specific picture in my head and nothing was quite lining up for me. So I refuse to buy anything else. I have other stuff that could work, I think.
I might've put men's cologne on this morning. I got a sample at a store I was at on Sunday but the box is very gender neutral and I'm still recovering from my cold so I can't smell anything. Once in a while I catch a whiff of my hair but that's it.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
I got my notice of hearing for the divorce...it's next week! The court had said we'd get a notice 2 weeks in advance, so now I have to figure out if I can even get out to FL on such short notice.
If you didn't initiate the divorce filing and everything is agreed upon, you can waive your appearance and just not show up.
ETA: Not that I want to get in the way of gtg opportunities.
I got my notice of hearing for the divorce...it's next week! The court had said we'd get a notice 2 weeks in advance, so now I have to figure out if I can even get out to FL on such short notice.
If you didn't initiate the divorce filing and everything is agreed upon, you can waive your appearance and just not show up.
ETA: Not that I want to get in the way of gtg opportunities.
Oh forgot to mention that we file the paperwork in my old county today so if the emergency order goes through xh will be notified within the next few days. I'm glad we've moved already because he doesn't know our address. I'm also glad my family is coming this weekend.
Don't you have to provide notice of new address to XH? I think my court stuff says I have X amount of days to provide info.
I had a phone interview yesterday afternoon for an external position. It's for a start-up company, which is like, the complete opposite of the type of company I work for now. But it could be a really exciting change!
Still waiting to hear back from my internal interview I had last week.
I'm going to see a movie today after work, is it time go leave yet?
Post by riverpestie on Oct 28, 2014 10:21:29 GMT -5
Kickball is tonight. If we win the first game, we play again for the Championships!
I met with my condescending professor last night. We had a good chat, we talked about some things, and I think (hope) things will be better in the future. On the same note, I am pumped about my thesis project. While there is still a ton of work that needs to be done, I feel as though things are coming together and I am understanding what I need to go and the direction in which I need to go. I have registered for 2 classes in the Spring, if my prof gives the "ok" I will register for the thesis as well. If all goes as planned, I will graduate in May! :::crossing my fingers::: everything works out. It will be nice to be done with school before the Summer! If I graduate, a week afterwards, we're flying to Puerto Rico for a wedding, so that will be a nice way to finish up my degree. Par-tay in PR!
I can't believe it is going to be November next week! Time is flying by so quickly!
Post by glitzyglow on Oct 28, 2014 10:22:03 GMT -5
I have to drive 3 hours today to my grad school. Tomorrow is 1 of 2 comprehension exams. I want to simultaneously eat all the things and throw up. I am so scared.
I pretty much just learned that Tux cheated on me (if not physically than emotionally). I'm trying not to vomit at my desk seeing their happy pic on FB that looks like an engagement photo (it's not). We broke up a month ago. I'm glad I didn't block him on FB bc now I won't be going to the Halloween party that I was planning on attending because he will be there.
I pretty much just learned that Tux cheated on me (if not physically than emotionally). I'm trying not to vomit at my desk seeing their happy pic on FB that looks like an engagement photo (it's not). We broke up a month ago. I'm glad I didn't block him on FB bc now I won't be going to the Halloween party that I was planning on attending because he will be there.
Nope. No more talking to him, for any reason. Just walk away with class.
If you didn't initiate the divorce filing and everything is agreed upon, you can waive your appearance and just not show up.
ETA: Not that I want to get in the way of gtg opportunities.
You quiet down!
Where in Florida is the court date?
We are doing a simplified dissolution, so one of the terms is both parties have to appear before the judge. It was always the plan, and it's not the getting to FL that is the issue, it is the lack of warning!
STBX lives in Hallendale, so it's in Broward. But I am planning on going up to Orlando for some Universal Studios. I bought a season pass while I lived there, so I might as well use it a little...plus the new part of the Harry Potter world opened and I haven't seen it yet, so it's practically a must.
Post by WinterIsComing on Oct 28, 2014 10:43:52 GMT -5
I haven't been around much because I have been so busy with work. I think I am finally caught up and will have a more relaxing week.
I am a little pissed at my lawyer. My state has a 90 waiting period which was up on October 10th. My lawyer was supposed to file the final papers that day which would then put everything into the queue to get signed by the judge. Welp, he forgot to do that and I didn't find out till late last week. He finally filed them last Friday so it should now be done in the next couple weeks. It doesn't really affect anything but I am pissed because I just want the damn thing over!
We aree doisimplified dissolution, so one of the terms is both parties have to appear before the judge. It was always the plan, and it's not the getting to FL that is the issue, it is the lack of warning!
STBX lives in Hallendale, so it's in Broward. But I am planning on going up to Orlando for some Universal Studios. I bought a season pass while I lived there, so I might as well use it a little...plus the new part of the Harry Potter world opened and I haven't seen it yet, so it's practically a must.