h and I are having cards printed with our pictures on them this year. its probably the most adult thing I have ever done.
they are probably going to be late.
This year I'm ONLY sending photos of the kids, because every time H and I take a picture of ourselves, one of us hates the photo. Â And then we bicker about which one to use, and then someone ends up sulking when the choice is finally made.Â
lol.
ETA: Â OH, the flameful part: Â I'm sort of afraid that by not including our photos, someone's going to automatically assume we got fat.Â
we went with 3 pictures; one of me I liked, one of him he liked, and one of both of us that is just okay. ha.
I feel like she took care with the wording here, which is extra special.
Yeah, this is really pissing me off.
I'm not going to lie, reading this shit just solidifies my hatred of going into a restaurant to order food.
#fattie #drivethruforlife
It puzzles me that her confession was posted right after 2 posters admit to not wanting other people watch them get unhealthy food for fear of being judged. I relate with you and with them about this and I'm really surprised at missussbee.
OMG OMG I haven't thought about Gael Ann's in forever!! I went to high school next door and ran over there every day before classes started. Now I have to take another trip!
My son goes there. Every year he gets a Gael Ann's gift card in his stocking. Thanks for reminding me!
GTG at Gael Ann's I haven't been there in like 5 years!
I'm not going to lie, reading this shit just solidifies my hatred of going into a restaurant to order food.
#fattie #drivethruforlife
Yeah. I realize these are mainly my issues, but I hate ordering/buying food in front of other people - I feel like I am being judged even if and when I'm not. It sucks hearing and reading confirmation that people really do pay attention for the purpose of getting a laugh.
I'm not going to lie, reading this shit just solidifies my hatred of going into a restaurant to order food.
#fattie #drivethruforlife
It's why I get salads in the work cafeteria. I have some serious fat shame issues.
My new thing is eating whatever the fuck I want ( while FAT) in front of anyone I want and then if they say something or snicker I actually say " I know this is totally delicious, AND I am FAT, it's not catchy though, so feel free to treat me like a NORMAL PERSON"
I'm not going to lie, reading this shit just solidifies my hatred of going into a restaurant to order food.
#fattie #drivethruforlife
It puzzles me that her confession was posted right after 2 posters admit to not wanting other people watch them get unhealthy food for fear of being judged. I relate with you and with them about this and I'm really surprised at missussbee.
Many of us post about our weight struggles, and often. Like, obviously, there are women on this board who are "really big" or whatever she said. So, how could you then say that @missusbee?
And I would think it was funny if someone wanted 7 Splendas with a small coffee, because ew. But her size had nothing to do with it. Or at least, it shouldn't have.
Many of us post about our weight struggles, and often. Like, obviously, there are women on this board who are "really big" or whatever she said. So, how could you then say that @missusbee?
And I would think it was funny if someone wanted 7 Splendas with a small coffee, because ew. But her size had nothing to do with it. Or at least, it shouldn't have.
It really just reveals how a person thinks, doesn't it? And forever marks them for me as an asshole.
I do my best to pretend people don't think like that as I go about my day. This has been very sobering.
h and I are having cards printed with our pictures on them this year. its probably the most adult thing I have ever done.
they are probably going to be late.
This year I'm ONLY sending photos of the kids, because every time H and I take a picture of ourselves, one of us hates the photo. And then we bicker about which one to use, and then someone ends up sulking when the choice is finally made.
lol.
ETA: OH, the flameful part: I'm sort of afraid that by not including our photos, someone's going to automatically assume we got fat.
No. Kids are cuter. No one cares what you look like anymore once you procreate. They are just all SQUEE. BABIES.
Sorry guys. I'm too close to shaming territory, I know. Shouldn't have added any details about her size. 7 splendas is silly no matter what your weight--that's what we were really amused by.
Close? More like you have applied for permanent residence in shame-ville. It might be less shitty if you at least admitted you were an asshole, instead of pretending that you were only kinda close to it.
I don't know if you have a back story to why your jealous, but when my best friend told me she was pregnant after I got off the phone I cried. We were suppose to have kids around the same time ( haha a pack we made 10 years ago lol) and I knew then I was nowhere near having a kid anytime soon. I'm so happy for her! I had a day long pity party and moved on. 10 weeks till babies is here and I'm so excited. We can't control how we feel but we can control how we deal with those feelings you know? And dude scream! Scream in your car!
uh....jillianashley6 is actively going through IF and treatments (which has been discussed a lot on here)...so yeah.
I'm gonna side-eye and flame at bit at comparing the feelings of someone in the midst of IF with a situation where you aren't ready/currently trying for kids.
Not the same.
And a big "fuck off" at "we can control how we deal with those feelings".
No. Just no. You haven't gone through IF, and have no idea what it's like.
I said I wasn't sure if their was a backstory.. I should have elaborated when I ment control our feelings. With the situation with my friend I was upset but I wouldn't project that on my friend, and the time my friend told me she was going to be an aunt was a day after my sister had a miscarriage. I was crushed. I can't stop how I feel and we should never, It was very hard to be happy towards my friend because I was hurting. My wording was horrible and I should have went back and looked, instead of putting my foot in my mouth. And that I do apologize. I tend to pop on and off this board and don't look at every post so I don't know who story always goes with who's name. So once again I apologize fully. Not the same not even close. I will look at past post before I respond. I would never mean to offend her or anybody else.
ETA: sorry again for being an asshole. I really feel like an ass as I should.
I'm always scared someone is going to ask me if I'm pregnant, mostly people I haven't seen recently. I feel like I see them looking at my belly to check:( I want to take pictures of H and I, but I don't bc of weight. So, yeah, this thread has been uplifting.
Oh, god. This happened to me yesterday. I was wearing leggings and a tunic and I thought I looked a little pregnant but thought eh, fuckit. I volunteered at the book fair yesterday and one of the moms helping me was totally eyeing my stomach. I KNOW she was wondering if I was pregnant. I badly wanted to scream I'M NOT PREGNANT! Ugh.
Oh, god. This happened to me yesterday. I was wearing leggings and a tunic and I thought I looked a little pregnant but thought eh, fuckit. I volunteered at the book fair yesterday and one of the moms helping me was totally eyeing my stomach. I KNOW she was wondering if I was pregnant. I badly wanted to scream I'M NOT PREGNANT! Ugh.
Things I have learned from this thread 1. Missusbee is a pathetic person and 2. Accessories from Pottery Barn is a thing and 3. I need pierogis for dinner
I worked for a local radio station in college, and he was the only person who ever made me starstruck. He was just so tall and smooth with his leopard print coat and leather pants and sunglasses (inside, at night), and no shirt. DAMN.